Okay there is this girl at school, she is perfect, and we are the best of friends. and i also like her. But i dont know if she likes me back, what should i do? I dont want to do anything to draw attention like bring flowers or stuff like that
2007-02-20 10:06:59 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
ask to go to the movies with her or something. not just her, of course, but you and a couple of friends. you may not want to go straight up to her and admit that you like her, because that might be awkward. Trust me, I know. you could perhaps ask a girl-friend that both of you share, and ask her if she knows if your crush likes anyone, and maybe even tell them (if they are good at keeping a secret) that you like her. hope things work out!
2007-02-20 10:12:16 · answer #1 · answered by Gabby 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First off... don't buy her ANYTHING, you can't buy a girls feelings. Let her earn it. You will also waste a lot of money if your strategy is to buy things for girls you like that you havn't spent time getting to know them first.
The best thing you can do is try to catch her eye, and once eye contact is made DO NOT LOOK AWAY, try to maintain it for slightly longer than normal, then smile. Then go and talk to her, don't flatter her with compliments, go with the aim of getting her to smile/laugh, then you can see where things go from there.
Good luck
ps, keep your head up, you want to exude confidence, that will make you much more attractive.
2007-02-20 18:21:17 · answer #2 · answered by Mike S 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok. Here are two ways:
If you are the best of friends that you say you are, tell her in a private place. Make it so that she doesn't feel pressured.
If you're kinda shy give her little hints and flirt with her.
Make sure she doesn't like anyone else.
2007-02-20 18:11:33 · answer #3 · answered by Eden 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know just how you feel. I really like this girl at my school too. We are like close friends, and I know you don't want to ask her out. It might ruin the relation ship. email me when you get this , Wish I could to.
2007-02-20 18:12:17 · answer #4 · answered by Twister 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You tell her how YOU feel!!! Don't be afraid to ask her either, chicks somehow since nervousness!!! I'm a guy, and when I'm wondering something like that, I just go for it!!! Maybe you should send her roses first or a note or something!!!
2007-02-20 18:09:58 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well i suggest you tell her in private and work the situation. if she is so perfect she will be honest. if she does not like you how you like at least you guys are still friend. WHO KNOW SHE COULD CHANGE HER MIND. DO NOT APPROACH HER IN A SEXUAL WAY.
2007-02-20 18:33:42 · answer #6 · answered by anna 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is school and you are best friends with a girl. What more do you want? Enjoy the friendship, enjoy school, enjoy life.
Unless you want complications, leave it be.
2007-02-20 18:24:30 · answer #7 · answered by Imogen Sue 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well if you are perfect friends you can ask her who she likes, if she is your friend and she trusts you she'll tell you and there is a problem solved, if she says no one you could ask her out since she isn't distracted by some other guy
2007-02-20 18:10:21 · answer #8 · answered by Breeepppp 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go to the movies w/ some other friends and ask her to come! Ask her out!
2007-02-20 18:10:28 · answer #9 · answered by Brooke 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Flirt like sharing food with her
2007-02-20 18:10:46 · answer #10 · answered by Audrey 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋