My husband cheated and he just told me yesterday. Then he said I'm sorry okay. I mean he said in a cocky tone. And today he's acting like nothing even happend. This morning he asked me if I wanted to go to the store with him and I didn't answer him. He was like well you wont talk to me so if I tell you to do something you wont so I wont even say it. Seems like he thinks I shouldn't be mad. Yesterday I told him that I lost my trust in him, ever since we got married all he did was lie and lie and i know that he wont be able to stop what he been doing. And he didn't even say anything after that. Isn't he suppose to say I wont do it anymore. I'm sorry.
2007-02-20 09:56:49 · 5 answers · asked by beautiful 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
This is the frist time he cheated. But If he did it before I wouldn't know anyways. The only reason why he told me was cause I found out and it took him three days before he told me. When I first asked him he was like I have the hottest wive I wouldn't do anything. I am pregnant. And I have not been giving him any for five months.
2007-02-20 10:10:11 · update #1
He used to tell me if i give it to him he wont go out but then he leaves rigth after it thats why I havent been giving to to him.
2007-02-20 10:12:12 · update #2
Well.. He didnt sleep with her. He said he just kiss her. But I dont know if theres more cause I had to try so hard to get every thing out of his mouth.
2007-02-20 10:21:23 · update #3
Men have different ways of showing there feelings. But it seem to me your husband has no regards for feelings and a nonchalant attitude about life. I guess he feels oh well its in the past get over it or hes done things and you let him get away with it. You have to put your foot down and and pray, that's if you believe in God. I guess he feel like your not supposed to hurt of have any feelings or because he was honest and not hid it, its suppose to make it right. Ask him if the situation was reversed how would he feel? He ruined this family not you and he wants you to feel bad and like its your fault. But its not, its a decision he made that had nothing to do with you and he wants you to feel like your the bad guy. Trust I've been there before. Hes gonna say you wasn't,t doing this or that, but if that the case then tell its still no excuse. Plus to that person that ask why he'd cheat, there is no excuse nor does it have anything to do with if you gave him some on a regular. He is just greedy and sounds like he is a jacka$$.
2007-02-20 10:09:50 · answer #1 · answered by TASHA B 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi Dear,
How many times? has he cheated on you? Plus, i would be careful. AIDS is on the rise and what goes around comes around.
You need to be extra careful before you make love again. DO you use protection. why did he cheat? Were you not giving him any? Are you pregnant? that he has to get if from someoneelse.
Hit me up! askanditshallbegive2u@yahoo.com
2007-02-20 10:04:10 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Even if he does say it, he probably won't mean it... he sounds like an a.ss... I would just leave him.
2007-02-20 10:03:24 · answer #3 · answered by F.J. 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well u do hVE HIS BABBY SO JUST STAY TILL THE BABY IS BORN AND WELL TRY 2 RESOLVE IT SRRY
2007-02-20 10:39:02 · answer #4 · answered by he thinks i like him 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would end it - baby
2007-02-20 10:04:49 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋