it took me 6 months to get over this guy and he said he never wants to speak to me again but then he talks to one of my friends and tells them that he wants me back so what should i do?
2007-02-20 09:52:33 · 9 answers · asked by brandi c 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Not knowing how old you are... general advice. Once a relationship is over... it's over. Don't play games.
2007-02-20 09:55:33 · answer #1 · answered by Other George W 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
keep going and don't look back. You have survived and the break is clean. If he screwed up then it's his problem. I'm going to something like that now, she walked out on me and said i would never see or hear from her again, That was in July. Just got a call from her and she needs my help. $$$$$$$$$$$$$ is whats she is all about. Keep your heart and your head, move on and let him find his way without you,
2007-02-20 09:59:27 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He had his chance.........you've moved on. If he didn't need you then, he don't need you now. It may have been a mistake on his part, but you don't play with people's hearts like that. Then if you would get back together with him, there's always the chance he could do that again.....because he'll figure she'll just take me back later. Think about this old Russian proverb, " Fool me once, shame on you.....fool me twice, shame on me". Best of luck with you.
2007-02-20 09:58:47 · answer #3 · answered by cajunrescuemedic 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Forget that jackass! He wants you back because whoever he dumped you for dumped him. Don't be a back up plan for any man. No man is worth your self respect. Move on and you'll find a real man who will love and respect you like you deserve. I know you'll still think about it but when you do just think about me yelling in the background "DOOOON'T DOO IIIIIITT!"
2007-02-20 09:59:51 · answer #4 · answered by clayp72 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
A. You should take him back and get your feelings trashed some more.
B. You can really move on. If you had, you wouldn't even be asking this question.
*Pick B*
2007-02-20 09:58:21 · answer #5 · answered by amazingly intelligent 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's not telling you that he wants you back, he's telling his friend. That shows me he's a coward and isn't worth your time. Unless he actually comes to you and ask you back, don't let this stress you. Keep living your life the same way you have been and leave him alone.
2007-02-20 09:58:17 · answer #6 · answered by Honesty 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
If you still care about him, take him back, but watch out, because if he hit you once, he could do it again. If you don't care about him, move on, there are plenty fish in the sea.
2007-02-20 09:57:03 · answer #7 · answered by Nikki 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
i beleive in moving forward...not backwards...he hasnt got what he left you for now..so he wants what he had...until he finds what hes looking for again..
take him back and be prepared for the same hurt that you just got over..
your friend sounds like they might be playing 1-on-1 between you two,dont beleive until you hear it 1st hand..then hurt that sucker..
2007-02-20 09:59:40 · answer #8 · answered by buddybottle_australia 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Just say no... Find another guy. This guy took too long to realize that he needs you.
2007-02-20 09:55:53 · answer #9 · answered by Eden 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋