Was flirting with a guy by text never met him before,after a few steamy txts he sent me a dirty picture of himself which for me was a bit too far, so stopped replying. Now getting messages from him saying he is hurt and it is unfair. I never gave him the impression that it would go anywhere he lives at the other end of the country, infact I told him that i was only looking for a bit of fun.
I don't think I owed him anything but feeling a bit bad about it all now. What do you think?
2007-02-20 09:51:09 · 19 answers · asked by Buffy 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
buffy play along sometimes means something different in other peoples minds the guy is seeing a lot more than you are offering. that is his problem though you don,t know him you have never met him it,s just another ship in the night. sleep soundly babe and put it in the past.if he continues to pester chuck your phone in the canal and learn from it take care
2007-02-20 10:03:56 · answer #1 · answered by Ken M 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that a person who sends dirty pictures has shown that he/she isn't serious about it all. That's my humble opinion.
Your decision at that point was to stop replying, which I think was natural and just. You could of course have written it to him, like "Now I think that you went too far" - maybe that's why you feel bad about it now.
Anyway, I can't see that you have done anything wrong.
2007-02-20 09:57:39 · answer #2 · answered by Kerosa S 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
LOL.. don't worry about it hun.. you probably dented his ego by not telling him how horny he made you feel!! it still amazes me that blokes think women get turned on by dirty pics of there least attractive body part!! My advice is text him saying look.. you went to far, i didn't want to see ya willy (or whatever it was ;) don't text me again!! Then just ignore him, he'll get bored when his credit runs out...
OOOO just got a new MMS wonder what it could be lol!!
2007-02-20 10:05:59 · answer #3 · answered by xxx vic xxx 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't feel bad at all! This guy sounds like a wierdo! He is looking to get a rise out of you, (or out of himself).
You don't owe him a darn thing! Don't return his text messages, it seems like it could get creepy.
2007-02-20 10:00:09 · answer #4 · answered by Jennifer 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just tell him he went too far,and you would prefer to end contact. If he texts again-just delete it. Don't reply to anything. He'll soon get the message.
2007-02-20 21:00:40 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dont feel bad. It wasn't anything serious. Don't fall for his response to you ignoring him. If there were hot and steamy texts then you brought it upon yourself.
But who cares, you don't know him personally.
2007-02-20 09:58:12 · answer #6 · answered by Tulip 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you dont know the man, so try not to feel too bad about it because he might be doing the same thing with someone else. he might keep txting you because he might be a sore loser. you are only being yourself, and like you said you didn't give him any impressions of it going anywhere. be happy.
2007-02-20 09:58:32 · answer #7 · answered by skyblue 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I THINK IT WAS VERY WRONG OF HIM TO SEND SUCH A PHOTO perhaps this will teach you a lesson do not send steamy messages to anyone you do not really know
2007-02-20 10:05:11 · answer #8 · answered by susan will of the wisp 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, you didn't owe him anything, but he obviously felt like the txtn relationship he had with you gave him permission to send you that photo of himself.
If he's hurt, unlucky, but if he offended you - then tell him.
2007-02-20 10:02:40 · answer #9 · answered by lynn a 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is a woman's prerogative to change her mind. You've done nothing wrong whatsoever. No man has any rights over you after a brief long distance flirtation.
2007-02-20 10:00:54 · answer #10 · answered by dorothy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋