So my girlfriend and I have been dating for 4 months and she does not ever seem to come over and talk to me in school we are both 16 and she doesnt seem comfortable coming over and talking to me, but when it is just the two of us at my house, we are great, but its that time at school when she doesnt seem to even care about me, she just ignores me, and when I gently ask her too she says she doesnt want my friends to judge her, so I am not sure what to do. I have told her many times that, I dont care if they don't like her, but I do.
2007-02-20 09:50:33 · 11 answers · asked by alaskaowned 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
pull her pants down in front of all of her friends. girls love that!
2007-02-20 09:53:25 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
She is shy and does not want to be judged. At 16 you are still kids but you will not realise that for many years so just accept what she gives but if you are not happy with that then find someone else.
2007-02-20 17:53:54 · answer #2 · answered by Closed Down 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why would you lie and say you dont care if they dont like her when you do?
Sounds like shes just nervous about being around your buds. You should be making her feel better about that.
Why dont you go hang out with her and her friends some? Go over and talk to her instead of asking her to leave her comfort zone and talk to you
2007-02-20 17:55:07 · answer #3 · answered by independent101 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like she might not actually like you. I did this to a guy once, and I'm embarrassed of it now. I was actually ashamed that I was with the guy I was with. Maybe she doesn't mind messing up her reputation at her/your house because there is no one there to see her with you. At school, though, it's a different story. My advice: give her an ultimatum. Tell her that if she's your girlfriend, she's your girlfriend everywhere.
2007-02-20 17:54:49 · answer #4 · answered by Crystal B 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well.. maybe she is scared that if she ignores her friends for you then just maybe they might not be by her side anymore. But, if she is really like that then talk to her and find out why she really does it. If she truly likes you she wouldn't be so shy in school to talk to you.
2007-02-20 17:55:14 · answer #5 · answered by Bubblez ♥ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I hate to break this to you. But you're dealing with a teenage girl.
She's in the main stage of ego building. Her image is everything.
That's how 99.9% of girs her age are.
Give it a few...then you'll be out of the total playpen known as high school.
2007-02-20 17:54:28 · answer #6 · answered by Other George W 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Then she is judging you and embarrassed by you. His doesn't sound like a top qualioty girlfriend. Find someone who is proud to date you.
2007-02-20 17:54:32 · answer #7 · answered by ciao_gina 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
AAwww poor girl. shes insecure and scared of rejection. YOU MAN have the chance to change that. Just tell her "Baby, its all good w/ my friends. they'll lov ya just like i do. And who cares if they dont lyk u, I still do, and thatz all that matters, right?" just come along with it softly/.
2007-02-20 17:54:57 · answer #8 · answered by Haley :] 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well she is probably afraid of what others will think and say. Do others know that you two are going out? If they do not, she probably doesn't want people to say she is a whore.
2007-02-20 17:54:00 · answer #9 · answered by Nikki 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Drop her dude...she is playing a game...and seriously if she dug you that much nothing would stop her. Belief me...Ive dealt with very similar things...get yourself a new one!
2007-02-20 17:53:25 · answer #10 · answered by vapeaceout 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋