was it right to dump my ex, because he wanted to get back together, again, after we were together for 1 1/2 years and broke up 3 times. was it right to say no?
2007-02-20 09:45:37 · 18 answers · asked by BAMBI 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i am 12 and in 7th grade, and i go to a really small school. we have 9 kids in the 7th grade and there are only 7 kids in 8th. my friend and i are the only girls, so yeah. i have to see him every day. just thought you'd like to know!
2007-02-20 12:14:24 · update #1
Just follow your heart. :)
2007-02-20 09:48:53 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Thanks for letting my know how old you are . There is nothing wrong with being 12 and in the 7th grade . It must be difficult with so few students . Perhaps you can work things out and remain just good friends if your both willing to just accept that . Your a little young to be over involved but none the less I understand and was your age once myself and yes liked girls at that age too . Always remember no matter what your age , you always have the right to say no too anything that you don't feel is in your best interests . If this is how you feel then you've made the right decision yourself and need no second guessing from me . Good luck you sound mature for your age , hope all works out well for you .
2007-02-20 17:50:07 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's kinda hard to answer since we don't have details as to what happened to cause the break up. But if you guys already broke up 3 times in such a short time then I would say it was right to dump him.
2007-02-20 17:48:54 · answer #3 · answered by mypassions4life 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes it was right to say no because you can go out with a man like me. But yes it was right to dump him because he really doesnt like you if he broke up with you 3 times.
2007-02-20 17:51:33 · answer #4 · answered by Keith J 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that it was all. You need some you time after so many break ups. But if he is a nice guy, you should apologize to him and get back together. But first, look for a guy that you might like better.
2007-02-20 17:49:58 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you feel uncomfortable with anyone, whether you dated them once, or a thousand times; if you do not want it to continue, you have the "right" to do what you want to. This is especially so if you have repeated broken up, gotten back together, broken up again. Something is telling you that it is not right for you to be that ambivalent about it.
2007-02-20 17:49:35 · answer #6 · answered by Kerry 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes, that was fine. You've already broken up 3 times, so chances are even if you did get back together it'd end again soon. Move on and find something better.
2007-02-20 17:48:17 · answer #7 · answered by blue_girl 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Probably. I've found that relationships that are tulmultuous are tulmultuous because they aren't right. When I met the love of my life, there were no questions asked and we never broke up. Wait for someone who you KNOW is right for you and don't ask questions about.
2007-02-20 17:48:18 · answer #8 · answered by Crystal B 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes. If he still hasn't learned what the problem was those first 3 times...he won't ever get it. You were right, you learned your lesson and good for you for standing up to him.
2007-02-20 17:50:40 · answer #9 · answered by Querida 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes. because you have already broken up 3 times so something wasn't right.
2007-02-20 17:48:02 · answer #10 · answered by kingsgirl 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
yes for sure once an x keep it an x theres always more around the corner. why stop your happiness
2007-02-20 17:51:07 · answer #11 · answered by AMBER 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋