Im 17 and she is 15, we went out for 9 months and it ended a few days ago, because she needed a break according to her. She said she loves me still and i love her so dearly, she is my true love. But she has been talkin with my best friend for a few weeks before breaking up and idk what to do. They did date for a month or so before, but she said he broke her heart so much. I was at her house the other day after it happened and she kissed me and we hugged alot and acted partially like nothing happened and it confused me so much. And i treated her to the best of my ability, she also said it was the best 9 months of her life. Did she fall out of love from some fights, or does she want to know if she really loved me by having a break? I think she likes him and she said she loves me, so what am i suppose to do with this?
2007-02-20 09:43:49 · 10 answers · asked by mychal1216km 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
it could all just be too heavy for her.
back off and give her time. if it really is "true love" you both have plenty of time for that to develop and mature
2007-02-20 09:47:47 · answer #1 · answered by Tissa 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
From what you've said it sounds like you're right about her having feelings for you both, and she probably is taking some time off to see who she loves more, and who won't take advantage of her. Just do whatever you can to prove to her that you love her and hope for the best.
2007-02-20 09:49:19 · answer #2 · answered by Jillian D 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Realize that she is 15 and you are 17. Your feelings are real to you, but neither of you is old enough to nurture a relationship. As much as this means the world to you now, in 20 years you may be hard pressed to even remember her name.
Take it as it comes. You will have many loves in life. Trust me, its true.
2007-02-20 09:51:59 · answer #3 · answered by amazingly intelligent 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok well im 14 so idk if this will help or not. well i think she probably is confused, just like u. just give her some time and if it becomes too long(like more than 2wks) tell her u want to know what is going on and u want to know how she really feels 4 u. i mean sure she can like him but she loves u. i think u are a very sweet guy and she would be crazy not to choose u.
2007-02-20 09:50:46 · answer #4 · answered by maeble5293 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry mate, but that's a lot of writing! You'll know if she loves you or not, it just takes time and how well things get played out. So hang in there and go for what feels right to you.
2007-02-20 10:01:52 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
this grl is messing witt yooo headd she reli fell outtaa love wit u and she jus sed she wanted a break so it wud be easier on u but she is hittin on yo best frendd soooi dont think u shud reli luv this grl soo much cuz shes messing wit u nd u dont even noe it
2007-02-20 09:48:14 · answer #6 · answered by Kayzizzle 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think shes fallin for him again.. and she said she needed a break cuz she has to think about who she likes more..even though she said she loves u..but i think she's just taking a break frum a relationship cuz maby she cant be in a relationship and think she's llikeing sumone else at the same time..
2007-02-20 09:53:29 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well i say she dont deservie u she wants the other guy u know your friend not to make u mad r nothing but dont u think its time to move on i meen yeah u may think u love her but u still have your hole life a head of u so dont trip on it good luck
2007-02-20 09:50:53 · answer #8 · answered by melton_misty 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just say look (name) if u like me u need to tell me or if like my friend better tell me. i need to either go out with u or be a free man, i can't keep this up anymore, u need to choose a guy or be single or leave both of us.. u can still be friends with us if u don't date us... but i need to kno this.... I hope this helps ya. good luck!!
2007-02-20 09:47:55 · answer #9 · answered by HollyW 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey bro bang her mom that will show her
2007-02-20 09:51:12 · answer #10 · answered by tebbetts_john 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋