Its a freind of mine and his g/f ignores his calls avoids him, everything possible that in a real relationship they would be over, but he just doesnt see, i've tried to show him, it just didnt work. I want to tell him how i feel, and end that horrible thing called a relationship.
2007-02-20 09:37:21 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Sooner or later he's gonna get fed up with the way she treats him. He'll get away from her, but only when he realizes it in his own mind. Remember when your parents told you not to do something.... and you went ahead and did it anyway.... just to see for yourself?? He'll figure it out... but in his own time.
2007-02-20 09:44:28 · answer #1 · answered by dathinman8 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
"She lets you down darling, says you're nothing at all..
but I'll pick you darling, when she lets you fall.
You're like a diamond, but she treats you like glass,
still you beg her to love you, and me you don't ask...
If I were your woman..."
There are a million torch songs about this topic, "If I were your woman," comes immediately to mind. Listen, if he wanted you he'd make a play for you. If you go after him while he is dating someone else or accept him while he is doing so then you invite the same to happen to you. Be a friend and stay out of his love life. If you can't do that, be prepared to be the rebound girl. Rebound lovers never last past the healing of the broken heart; except maybe in love songs; which aren't real are they?
2007-02-20 09:46:40 · answer #2 · answered by amazingly intelligent 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe he likes being treated like dirt.
You'd be a horrible person to disrepect their relationship and interfere.
If he wises up and gets rid of her, then make your move. Otherwise back off and butt out. If you've told him once hes being treated badly and he didnt listen, dont continue to interfere or you'll eventually drive a wedge between the two of you
2007-02-20 09:42:55 · answer #3 · answered by independent101 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
it ought to finally end up you would loosing both truly than one. you should really imagine is it worth risking our friendship and loosing him aswell because the b/f? or save him as a buddy who will be there to assist you. there are quite some adult men accessible who're no longer idiots
2016-12-04 10:39:10 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well from expierience let them be. I was in a similar situatuation and it would kill me to see them like that. We liked eachother but he always seemed to be loyal to the one who hurt him. He needs to learn for himself. You are going to be the one hurt in the end.
2007-02-20 09:43:03 · answer #5 · answered by Melinda 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You should sit him down and tell him how you feel. Before that you should talk to him about his disgruntled girlfriend. If he's really your friend he'll understand.
2007-02-20 09:43:32 · answer #6 · answered by Emo C 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
tell him flat out what is hapening and how u feel and ask him how he feels when his so called "girlfriend" is around and ignores him.
2007-02-20 09:42:12 · answer #7 · answered by fashgurl 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
follow your heart or let him fall and be their to catch him when he does.
2007-02-20 09:42:42 · answer #8 · answered by Emma R 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Well if he won't listen, let him learn it the hard way... or maybe there is something there that only they can see.. .IDK
2007-02-20 09:41:05 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋