theres this girl... i've know for nearly 4 yrs and we're good friends and spend a fair amount of time around each other. I've always fancied her and we did briefly try getting together. recently she got a little jealous over a friendship i had with another girl and i told her how i felt and from that i took her out for valentines day. I need suggestions on how i can win her heart as she's not a big fan of everything romantic...(likes flowers but not into candlelit dinners or big compliments etc...) and we're both fairly shy when it comes to our feelings... Any ideas???
2007-02-20 09:27:59 · 14 answers · asked by magic_eightball83 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Tell her how much u mean to her.. with all ur heart.
Just let ur true feelings come out.
You want to always let her know shes ur everything and make her feel special and loved.
Also if u feel this way.. tell her in ur eyes theres no one else but her. my bf tells me this.. well not me. but i find out.. and it makes me feel special.
Well i hope i helped. =]
2007-02-20 09:33:57 · answer #1 · answered by Rain 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take her for a romantic dinner - believe me every girl likes to be wined & dined.Get her some flowers as well.Before you drop her off home or whatever just make that move.Take a deep breath & tell her how you feel.Be honest - you love her, you want to be with her, you miss her when she's not with you etc - you know yourself what's what.
Hold her hands in yours & look her directly in the eyes when you say all this.It worked for me 15 months ago, so good luck!
2007-02-20 13:51:57 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You keep inviting her out to the pictures, for a drink & go with her shopping on a saturday & a walk & to the pub on Sunday.
Start getting to see more of her & show that you are really interested in her & very occasionally tell her that you like her very much.
Be natural because love does grow on people.
Do not take advantage of her,
Talk to her about her day & show interest in her. Girls & women love talking & men are generally less talkative, you both have to reach a happy medium.
Thre most important thing is to be truthful, respectful & loyal & expect the same from her.
Good luck
2007-02-20 11:06:01 · answer #3 · answered by ANDREW H 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Find some common ground with her, does she like a band or a football team? Surprise her with a night out to something that she'll really like. Be confident, keep the conversation flowing and laugh at her jokes and you'll be in there. Just don't expect the relationship to move too quickly.
2007-02-20 09:32:47 · answer #4 · answered by mad_caesar 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Investigate..find out what she likes and what will make her swoon. Everyone is different. Ask her friends..her family what she loves to do. Or what she thinks is fun. Surprise her! If she mentions that she loves to see dolphins take her to sea world. If she loves dancing..take her to a club or ballroom dancing class. Find out what she loves to do and use that to your advantage. She will love you for it. Just be creative and show the girl a good time. It shows her that you listen, care, and are putting eXtra effort into making her feel happy. What girl would not love that!
2007-02-20 09:44:02 · answer #5 · answered by asiansmile 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think you need a winning gimmick really. You'll be fine. Just don't do anything cliched, I suppose. Choose places to take her and things to bring her which reflect her interests very keenly. Perhaps something - I dunno, a weekend somewhere you always talked about going, which will make her fondly remember...stuff. God...romantic doesn't do it for me either, feel ill now. I tried :) Good luck!
2007-02-20 09:38:18 · answer #6 · answered by dorothy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
next time you take her out, try to find out what she really likes, and pick up on little comments she makes, take her some flowers and tell her she looks nice. she will know you are trying to make her happy, and you should go from strength to strength.
2007-02-20 09:42:23 · answer #7 · answered by skyblue 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
HEY SHE KNOWS U BECUZ U HAVE BEEN FRENZ FOR 4 YRS IT SOUNDS LIKE SHE AS THE HOTTS FOR YOU SO ALL YOU HAVE TO DO IS BE UR SELF BE SINCERE AND TELL HER HOW YOU REALLY FEEL ABOUT HER OK. WISH U ALL THE BEST
2007-02-20 09:35:07 · answer #8 · answered by DI'MARIO 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be nice to her, treat her good, look into her eyes when you talk to her, don't be too clingy, offer to pay for everything
2007-02-20 09:32:50 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if your not the romantic type
try being humorous
i loove funny guys
maybe she does too.
2007-02-20 09:36:46 · answer #10 · answered by THAT GIRL 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋