There are bad advantages of having sex before your married because you could get some type of disease from your partner? Would you take the risk of getting your girlfriend pregant or would you just wait for sex after marriage?
2007-02-20 09:27:23 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It's not important unless you are MARRIED!!!
Yes, if you do it before you are married you are much more likely to get an STD...and you could get pregnant and then you'd be a single parent....PLUS...it's a sin.
2007-02-20 09:37:19 · answer #1 · answered by em<3 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
SeX is an important aspect in any relationship. It can bring two people closer together are drive them apart. If you are not feeling fulfilled by a man or woman when you make "love" then it can tear your relationship apart. Why do you think peope cheat? It's all about being compatible and what both parties want in their seX lives. To not get someone pregnant the girl should be on some sort of birth control or depo provera shot. You should always use a condom correctly. There is nothing wrong with seX before marriage, but age and culture has a lot to do with those choices. Also, maturity...everyone is different, but do what is best for you.
2007-02-20 09:33:45 · answer #2 · answered by asiansmile 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sex before marriage is a very controversial subject. As for me, I don't see that sex before marriage is all that bad. People are selective in who they marry, as they should be with their sex partners. And if you are still not sure, always use a condom-no matter what!!! The way I look at is, sex is very important. It would be horrible to marry someone and then not be sexually compatible. But on the other hand, if you are a virgin, you wouldn't know that your spouse was good or bad, it would be all you know.
2007-02-20 09:34:00 · answer #3 · answered by dardarzene 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well if you intend to marry the person, and they have an STD. You are screwed either way. I really dont see getting pregnant as a reason to marry these days. Maybe back in the 20's..but not now. Not everyone see's eye to eye on this subject. Sex, is an imprtant part of a relationship, but it's not everything. If you base your marriage off of it, then thats all it will ever be.
2007-02-20 09:33:29 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sex is very important...at least to me.
Getting married is a huge commitment, so you want to make sure the person is right for you. Disease? If you are talking marriage you should know if your partner is clean or not.
Just think about it, if you got married and the person was a horrible cook, you would be going out eat quite a bit, get my drift? ;)
2007-02-20 09:32:31 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Of course sex is important to me in a relationship. It's better to wait until marriage but if you already had sex before marriage then yes it is important because if it gets boring you can come up with ways to make it better. To some people, sex is a form of communication.
2007-02-20 09:34:18 · answer #6 · answered by tantalizin1 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sex is important,it's a connection between 2 people who love each other unfortunately there are some who use it for other purposes which is sad. Then there is the old trusted condom what a joke I would say any product with a 24% failure rate isn't so safe.If you wait until your married you take a chance that your not sexually compatible.Life love and sex is a risk any way you look at it..................
2007-02-20 10:00:19 · answer #7 · answered by miester44 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's not importaint to me, but thats because I'm not ready to have a kid. Yes I know there are tons of different types of protection. For example my ex was on birth controll while we dated and still is to this day. We never once had sex, and had a great relationship for a year and a half. The only reason we broke up was because she moved to a different city to go to school and I didn't want to hold her down, and she felt the same way... Ok wow I'm off topic... sorry
2007-02-20 09:33:50 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nope. My girlfriend tries to use sex as incentive to do things or go places...but I really don't care. I don't really want to have sex with anyone or anything. It's too much hassle. I tell her that I'd rather get drunk and spend 3 minutes "doing my business" to some free asian porn site.
Sex requires too much time, effort, preparation, clean-up, "cuddle-time", fore-play, worring about if the other person is having a good time, etc. I'm happier by myself with a Nintendo and a bottle of Everclear.
2007-02-20 09:33:00 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sex is a critical part of relationships. Not necessarily immediately but very few people I know of wait until marriage. Of course I do understand that cultures vary and I know there are tons who do and all the power to you. Typically condoms are pretty effective.
2007-02-20 09:30:32 · answer #10 · answered by Josh S 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well it is good for women to not have sex before marriage because that is what GOD wants for his daughters. But protection does work but not all the time but if the girl can not have children then go for it. But there is always kissing.
2007-02-20 09:32:44 · answer #11 · answered by zarigirl101 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋