have this guy..who flirts with me but he never really made an actual move, I know for a fact that he's an insecure guy.. there was one instance where he told me to call him if I ever wanted to hang out or go to a movie.. and there was another time where he asked me WHO I spent my holidays with, and on top of that he's always questioning me about how come I'm always leaving when he comes and talk to me... so I thought well he told me to call him if i ever wanted to hang out..so I made the first move and asked him to hang out.He told me that he would like to but it would have to be in a couple of weeks because he is broke....so I called him yesterday..and told him i was going to starbucks and if he wasn't busy after work, he could join, me he told me that starbucks sounds good, however today wouldn't be too good since he's busy, and that we would have to meet up sometime next week..then I asked him if he wasn't interested would he tell me? He said quote on quote "that we can meet up
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continues..." that if I wanna meet up sometimes we can" But he can't say that he is interested in meeting up as an ongoing thing" How would you interpret that...
2007-02-20 09:24:10 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Etiquette
The guy is spineless and if you ever do get together it will burden you with constantly trying to convince him he is more important than an earthworm because he frequently thinks of himself as nothing.
Don't mean to be cruel here but drop him, he is not ready for a relationship.
2007-02-20 09:29:40 · answer #1 · answered by jleslie4585 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
He sound like a loser. If he really is interested, he would said yes the first time you ask even when he should be the one making the first move. And then treat you like some object that he can push aside and pick up anytime he wanted, that's just wrong. You deserve better, someone who treat you with respect. The way he played you now, it will only get worst if you do start a relationship with him. Move on, there's better guy out there for you.
2007-02-24 02:39:44 · answer #2 · answered by Helen3879 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Open ur mouth & point blank ask him-If he is ever going to go out with u. Tell him ur not into head games & he always has a not right now answer!!! Tell him if he's not interested that is fine,u just want to know as u don't need to waste ur time waiting for him. In my opinion he may have an underlying problem u don't know about !!!! The world is full of guys (that don't play games) move on & find him-he's out there. Good luck B-safe xo DonnaP
2007-02-20 17:40:04 · answer #3 · answered by Donna P 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This guy is either a wimp or enjoys pulling your chains. Just forget about him. His lose, you haev given him more than enough chances which was more than most people would do. Good on you for trying, especially since you know he was insecure but now it's time for you to cut ties.
2007-02-20 21:28:14 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take my sincere advice - do not waste time on this guy, you cannot wait until he matures and earns enough to realise that he should be calling first and asking you out.
The feeling that you have sounds like you are sorry for him, but it is nt real attraction, is it? Surely, there are things in your life that deserve your attention more than the guy you described. ;)
2007-02-20 17:31:06 · answer #5 · answered by S from Dublin 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He doesn't sound interested. Even a shy guy jumps at an opportunity when the girl makes the first move. I think you misinterpreted his original intentions. Move on.
2007-02-20 17:33:11 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
I recommend investing your time elsewhere. Surely you have better things to do than analyze this guy's very mixed signals. Tell him that's fine, and then find someone who IS interested in hanging out all the time.
2007-02-20 17:30:57 · answer #7 · answered by Jennie Fabulous 4 · 3⤊ 0⤋
i think he's just playing with you.. don't waste your time on him.. I am sure you're a pretty girl and a lot of guys would like to hang out with you
2007-02-20 18:07:59 · answer #8 · answered by bittersweetlove21 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Run away! if it takes this much effort just to start something with him think how tough it would be a year down the road. Run away and don't look back.
2007-02-20 17:42:52 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think that he is being pulled in two directions|
He wants to get close, but he is afraid to get close|
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2007-02-20 19:45:29 · answer #10 · answered by Catholic Philosopher 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋