I'm scared for mi mommy???

Question

This old man [hes about 70] keeps asking my mom if he can touch her??? OMG, I want to slap him, he comes into my mom's office daily drunk and he keeps asking her out and he knows shes married and has 5 kids but he just keeps asking if he can touch he, he is creepy and weird. He's white too.

What if he tries to rape her or something? I just dont trust him, i dont want to call police because it he might get angry and do something worster, like get mad and pull out a gun or knife. And he didnt really do anything except ask my mom to touch her.

What should i do? I keep getting this feeling that he's going to do something because he's always drunk, I'm protective of my family and i dont want anything bad to happen to them. I wanted to slap him and spray mace in his face. Was this sexual harssment? My mom just walks away looking at him or tell him to go now or ingores him. Whyu doesnt she do anything?

What if he follows us?

Answer 1

Is your mom offended by this? Don't you think that your dad knows? I tell my husband every thing. If he's like 70 years old do you really think he can still get it up? Most men that age don't work with out Viagra. Your mom should tell her boss, or even tell the guy that it makes her feel uncomfortable, but if she hasn't and this has been happening for a while your mom might not feel the the threat you.
By the way theres no such word as worster, the word is worse. and So what if he's white? Rapists, molesters, murders, and abusers come in all races, maybe it bothers you so much because the guy is white.

Answer 2

It's doubtful that he will try to attack or rape your mother, because he's too old to actually hurt her - she could easily defend herself, even if he had a weapon.

This is definitely sexual harassment, and your mother's boss should do something to protect her. She needs to report it to her boss and the police, and they can put the man in jail if he doesn't leave her alone. Your mom is probably afraid to talk with him herself, or feels that it will only encourage him to talk to her more. However, if he really does do this every single day, she needs to let him know that she won't stand for it. Just telling him to go away isn't enough - he'll keep bugging her until she stands up to him, or has her boss or the police do it for her.

Tell your mom that his actions really upset you, and encourage her to stand up to him or seek help. She doesn't have to live with this every day.

And don't blame any of this on his skin color - his being white doesn't make his actions any better or worse than if he were any other race.

Answer 3

The fact that he is white has nothing to do with it. He is a drunk, probalby an alchoholic, and it is not unusual for drunks to act this way. What he is doing is like sexual harassment and he could get in trouble for it. I do not think he is a danger to your mother, and she probably knows this, that is why she doesn't do anything. If it really bothers you, talk to your mother about it so she can tell you how she views it, after all, she is the one he is approaching so she is the one that would have to press charges against him.

Answer 4

If he is always drunk and 70yrs old there is not a lot he can or will do. Your mum is not stupid and she knows that if she does hit him she will probably get sacked. She is doing it the best way because if she keeps ignoring him He will get bored and go away especially as if you say he is White he is definately out of his own terriotry. I say try not to worry have a talk with your mum and listen to what she has to say, it will make good sense to you. Good Luck.

Answer 5

Bless your heart! It is sexual harassment. I don't care if he was 22 or 70 years old.. he knows better. He is not respecting your Mom or even you. Talk to your Mom and tell her it is bothering you, the way he is doing and report him to authorities. He had no right what he did. I don't know why she won't do anything but she should!
Tell her report it ...if not then you can!
Hope it works out!!

Answer 6

Yes, it's sexual harrassment and your mom should inform her boss of this immediately. If it doesn't end, the cops need to be called. Oh btw, he's 70 so I don't think the rape thing is a major issue at this point, but you are right to be concerned.

Answer 7

I'm terrified! I had a micro-preemie in September and we didn't get to bring her home until Christmas day, and we had to keep her inside and not be around other people because of the threat of RSV. Now Swine Flu....it makes me VERY nervous!

Answer 8

Mom needs to report him to her boss. It is sexual harassment.
If Mom doesn't have a boss, she needs to tell him to stop, I mean she needs to say "STOP IT" and she should tell him that if he doesn't she will report him to police....she can get something called a restraining order, which says if he gets within so many feet (a certain distance) she can call the police and have him arrested......talk to your Mom and let her know how bad this is freaking you out and that you are worried about her safety. By the way, what does Dad say about all this?

DO NOT FOLLOW HIM TO HIS HOUSE TO GET HIS ADDRESS!!

Answer 9

If your mom is married, you need to talk to your father and let him handle it! Also you need to sit down with your mom and ask her about this man, but this doesn't make sense. There is something going on either you fail to mention or you just don't know. Your mother may know this man and she is not being open with you.

Think about it! If my wife is being harass by a constant (unknown) drunk man at work, do you think I expect my wife to be at ease with this guy, and yet, not to tell me as her husband?

Think about it! Follow him one day and see where he goes. If you find out his address, give it to your mother and see her reactions. If you mother become highly upset with you...something is not right!

God Bless

Answer 10

I beleive you should tell the police. The police are aware of the fact that a person may try to cause harm if someone turns them in, so I'm sure they will get him off the street and give you and your family protection.