I had recently found out he got drunk and had sex with this girl,now I tried just calling him today and his best friend just told me"He is in the Shower with his Girlfriend". I asked him"are you surious"! He said"Yes". So now I'm thinking, how should I dump him in the baddest way to hurt him or should I just go easy on him? What do you think I should do?
2007-02-20 09:18:54 · 12 answers · asked by Kitty 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I want to HURT him in the Badest way! That is what I mean, but how!
2007-02-20 09:24:23 · update #1
Sorry to say but you were probably his girl on the side. No dumping necessary, don't go all psycho on him either or it WILL get around that you are that crazy girl. trust me I know that crazy girl and you don't want that rep.
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2007-02-20 09:23:25 · answer #1 · answered by curious caucasian 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
What most of the people before me is partially true. I'm sorry he is cheating on you and I know it probably hurts you terribly for you to be told that he was in the shower with another girl, but you really do have to be the better person. Some before me said that he has alreadydumped you well I bet in his mind he thinks that he can have both you and this other girl. You need to brake up with him but dopn't do it in the meanest way possible but do hurt him some because he hurt you by cheating on you. Tell him why your dumping him and that you didn't like what he did to you. Whatever you do don't go easy on him though. He cheated on you and that was a terrible thing to do and dumping him would be letting him off the hook. I'm so sorry that he cheated on you I hope that it comes around to bite him in the butt some day. Hope everything goes well and you find a better guy that him!!
2007-02-20 09:37:05 · answer #2 · answered by Meg 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry thinking you got dumped already, and there is nothing left to dump. But then again if it really hurts him which it might eventually because he doesn't have you in his life, then just keep on moving forward, that will be the best revenge, just move forward, and act as though it doesn't matter. Don't call, Don't write, Don't anything!!!!
2007-02-20 09:25:29 · answer #3 · answered by K_Seeks4Answers 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just keep it in the middle...don't try to hurt him too much but don't make it easy on him cause he cheated on you!
you should bring it up in front of his friends and say stuff bout all his mistakes...this will embarrass him and it will be a good way to end the relationship!
2007-02-20 09:23:18 · answer #4 · answered by FairyPrincess 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i know it quite is not honest yet females frequently sit down there and communicate approximately you and placed extra attempt into their clothing and frequently while dumped in the event that they are crying or dissatisfied (despite in the event that they don't look dissatisfied in front of you) they pass confer with their acquaintances who're probable those providing you with sh*t and then their acquaintances could tell their boyfriends or different females
2016-12-17 14:51:48 · answer #5 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Uhh, having been there...in a form or another...girlfriend, it is soooo time for YOU, and YOU only! You need to find a better lover...somebody who doesn't hurt you like he has already done...
Plus, why would you want to deal with a alcoholic anyways?
what a complete waste....you deserve a great love in your life...he isn't that!!!
I sympathize with ya!
2007-02-20 09:24:02 · answer #6 · answered by ladyk 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Umm.. If his friends are already referring to shower girl as the new girlfriend, I don't think there is anyone left to dump.
2007-02-20 09:21:45 · answer #7 · answered by kelloggs322 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Two schools of thought:
1) take the high road and be the bigger person
2) Bang the hell out of his best friend in front of him.
2007-02-20 09:21:59 · answer #8 · answered by H.B.K. 2 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i think u should put things in his prospective maybe he regrets of what he has done to u. if u still want to dump him then no body can decide if u want to let him down easy or really hard. if u want to go easy on him then say we have to talk and then tell him.if u want to go hard on him tell him u know what he did and then text him or put it on a comment on his myspace(if he has one)or send emails to everyone that u guys r through and wat he did to you!!!
2007-02-20 09:27:34 · answer #9 · answered by fashgurl 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think he already dumped you Suga.....pick up the pieces and move on.
2007-02-20 09:22:42 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋