Me and my girlfriend have been together for about a year. We get along great but now i see her alot at school because we have a class for the first time. She's switching schools next year to all girls so im happy because it's better that way. I find myself tring harder for her at school ( to see her, ect.) although she does try, don't get me wrong. When we're alone she is alot more affectionate and is all over me. She was never a publicly affectionate person even with past boyfriends, which doesn't bother me, and i was her first for all sexual things, besides kissing. i know she loves me but i'm getting kind of bored trying, and i feel like being chased for a bit. Is there anything i can do or by me doing these things for her am i just playing my role as a good boyfriend. She says she loves me and can't see herself with out me and that i'm the most amazing guy.
2007-02-20 09:14:21 · 13 answers · asked by Hurt 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Well from my point of view I believe you really love her! But listen closely:
I'm not saying ignore her but don't let her think you need her! Switch the script and make it so that she's running to you
2007-02-20 09:20:59 · answer #1 · answered by ♥Shaya♥ 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
So what's your problem? You have a great girlfriend, you like each other, she says she loves you.... and your only complaint is that you have to try harder to get her attention during school hours?
Sounds like you don't know a good thing when you got it, dude. You just can't be her #1 priority 24/7... she needs to focus on other things during school hours, such as academics, extracurricular activities, and her friends, and she needs to be to divide her attention between them. You have to grant her some space and not demand all of her all the time. Be careful unless you become that needy sort of person who can't exist with the other. Back off a bit, just during school hours, and appreciate what you have.
2007-02-20 09:25:18 · answer #2 · answered by teresathegreat 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
So, you try harder to hang out than she does? Then talk to her about it. It's so normal to not want to show affection in public though. Some people just have respect or are too shy to kiss in front of other people. I think you just seem like a good boyfriend! =]
2007-02-20 09:18:56 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well it sounds like you need to grow up hun relationships get boring and sometimes you feel like you want to leave that person but you seem like you are in high school so chill out it most likely last anyways
but if it does then you need to stop tryin to get her to make you happy and go get happy yourself by trying a new hobby or sports or music are maybe art go get a life and then try to have a relationship its much easier that way
2007-02-20 09:19:44 · answer #4 · answered by carmelfude2003 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i know it feels like you aren't being challenged now to hold onto her. just stick to whats going on for now. the reason she is becoming more in love with you is because she is leaving.
once she leaves you will have that challenge again to be with her.
since you wont see her all the time you will be even more happy to see her when you do.
2007-02-20 09:20:02 · answer #5 · answered by emile 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
um, are they sweating simply by fact they're warm simply by fact they're below some thing? Like her back or her hair. try being on the backside, palms up, on her back, or rub the sweat off on her denims, she would be in a position to no longer be conscious.
2016-10-02 11:20:48 · answer #6 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If ur gf is going to another skl isnt that guna mean more chasing to get to see her? it wud mean that there arent as many boys to compete with. u shud just get on with it nd play the good boyfriend role, if u change she mite not like it. or mite c ur personality changing.
2007-02-20 09:19:44 · answer #7 · answered by barbedwireribbons 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Waiting for girls to chase after you? Who you think you are? Valentino, Brad Pitt or Tom Cruise? Come on. Jerk. And please don't boast around saying that you have sex with this or that girl.
2007-02-20 09:20:42 · answer #8 · answered by lawrence 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey keep your girlfriend but find some random girl on the side to play cat and mouse with but remember what ur girlfriend dont know dont hurt her
2007-02-20 09:18:23 · answer #9 · answered by tinkqt02 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I think that you are going to HAVE to talk to her...tell her you want her to "chase" you..for a change..that you really feel like this would make you happiest...or happier....
If you don't talk...she won't know...
2007-02-20 09:17:50 · answer #10 · answered by ladyk 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋