ok my friends are mostly guys but not because i can't get along with girls at my school. but because i get along with them easily and heck their're so much fun!!! anyways but i keep finding my self falling in love with the guys i want to be like brothers to me!! it sucks and it hurts!!! most of these guys have girlfriends and i don't mind but girls at my school try to say that i have crushes on the guys that are my friends but not that type of friend!!! plz help i really need to find a bf so that way the girls at my school will stop thinking i'm desparate enough to hang out with guys!!
plz help!!
Kelse
2007-02-20 09:03:01 · 8 answers · asked by Kelse 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Dont worry. I hang out with mostly girls and I'm falling for them left and right. And I have another friend thats exactly like you...And she gets the same crap. You're just a very flirty, brave, and confident person. It sounds like the other girls are just jealous :D But dont sweat it...If ppl are bothering u about tell em to leave u alone. It's perfectly normal.
2007-02-20 09:08:26 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all, define "falling in love", because what you could be feeling is admiration, but not necessarily love.
Secondly, been there done that. It's none of their business the relationship you have with your friends. When I was in high school, a bunch of girls was jealous of the fact that me and the most popular boy in school ate lunch together, that I had his number, knew his mother, and went to his house several times. They tried to say I had a crush on him, but he and I knew what the deal was. It's called jealousy. Not the average girl can be friends with a guy and have their complete trust. Be happy that your friends put you on such a pedestal. Don't feel the need to get a boyfriend to get jealous girls off your back. That jealousy proves why your friends aren't interested in them anyway.
2007-02-20 17:14:41 · answer #2 · answered by Honesty 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
U don't need a boyfriend to try and prove people wrong. If you spend the rest of ur life, tryin to prove other people wrong, u will never be happy and u will never live ur own life. So long as u're happy, that's all u should really be concerned about. If u like hanging out with guys then so be it. That doesn't mean that u have a crush all the time.
2007-02-20 17:09:06 · answer #3 · answered by ♥Nana♥ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds a little desperate to me. You'll find a guy. Be patient. To say you don't mind that these guys have girlfriends is not right. You're looking for trouble. Are you sure you are falling in love with guys left and right? Love isn't falling for a lot of different people. I think what you are is attracted to these guys, not in love with them.
2007-02-20 17:12:48 · answer #4 · answered by Hibbler 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hun, My group at school are all guys. There is only me and my friend Aubrey who are girls. I prefer guys because girls start all this drama. Anyway, they're all like my big bros you know. But I have a boyfriend from that group. You should stick with one guy. People are going to think you're a slut, but youre not.
2007-02-20 18:01:54 · answer #5 · answered by Emo C 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first of all you arent falling in love
they may be crushes but its not love if its for more than one guy
and just ignore those girls
you know that you aren't desperate so that doesn't matter
(btw, when you said you really needed a bf, that made you sound desperate)
i wouldn't tell the guys you like them if they have girlfriends right now
just continue to flirt with one and if he flirts back than you can tell him.
or just try to develope a relationship
2007-02-20 17:14:07 · answer #6 · answered by emile 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hanging out with people of the opposite sex and getting to know them often leads to deeper feelings. That's natural. My suggestion would be start actively hanging out with single guys who are available to reciprocate your affections.
2007-02-20 17:10:46 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Lust... not love. big difference. stay single. you don't want a BF just to fit in. what if hes a crap kisser?
2007-02-20 17:09:58 · answer #8 · answered by Aussie_chick 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋