I like two of my best friends!!!! I'm stuck!!!! I need help!!!! What should I do??? Should I ask out one? And if he says no...... Should I ask out the other???? PLZ answer!!!!!
2007-02-20 08:53:03 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
if u think u like both best friends then it must b puppylove.
if u truely love both compare qualities and the things u like more about one or the other. then ask the one u picked out for a date.
hope this helps
2007-02-20 09:03:17 · answer #1 · answered by the.journey.is.the.reward. C.P. 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Should you ask the other one if the other guy says no.....
It Depends. If they know each other and are really close friends I wouldnt recommend it because guys talk to each other about things like that, and things could get really weird from there, say he says no, then he goes to his friend and says "ya know so-an-so asked me out today, but I said no" and then you ask your other friend and he may get upset that he was a second choice. But it could also go the other way. But you said that they were your best friends, so they should be more understanding, and besides, what if the first guy says yes. My advice is, If your willing to take a chance on this then by all means go right ahead, life is all bout taking chances, I mean you take a chance of getting killed every time you get in a car. So if you really like these guys, then you should go for it, you'll never know unless you try
2007-02-20 09:09:00 · answer #2 · answered by Alexa 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you like them both, ask them both out.
You are not committed to either of them.
See who you like the best after going out with each.
You might be drawn to one more than the other.
Some guys change when you shift the friendship to a dating relationship. They treat you totally different.
If you are at all worried about losing a boy as a friend here, you should think twice.
Once you cross over, you never go back and things do change.
I think if you are truly stuck you should try them both on first like jeans when you shop....... before you buy, find the one that suits you the best....
2007-02-20 09:01:32 · answer #3 · answered by doclakewrite 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There are several things you need to consider when making a decision like this:
1. are you willing to risk potential awkwardness between one or both friends if you ask one of them out? whether they say yes or no, it may become a little weird after the fact.
2. are you sure you like one or the other? think about it carefully, maybe you are confusing your friendly feelings with romantic feelings.
3. it's going to make you look kind of bad if you ask out one, get rejected, and then you go ask the other one out.
It doesn't seem to me you honestly like either one that much as more than a friend. Maybe it's not worth it to risk your friendships with them. Friends last a long time.... but these kinds of situations can get dramatic and complicated fast. Good luck.
2007-02-20 09:00:22 · answer #4 · answered by peaches87 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
find out which one likes u if they both ask the one u like more. If one go for him if neither then dont ask. Also if u ask one who says no then the other one says yes and finds out u asked the other guy first he might get mad and u might lose both as friends.
ps we all know u get 10 points for best answer oh and good luck
2007-02-20 08:58:22 · answer #5 · answered by wassup 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you really like them as friends, I wouldn't date them unless you REALLLLYYYY love them, because it could jepardize your friendship with them. If they're not really good friends, then go for it and try askin em out, but if they are, I'd okay it safe and try to find another guy.
Also, if you don't want to jeopordize your friendship but still like them, spend lots of time with em. They wont notice...And if they're good friends you could probably get a few hugs/snuggle on the couch together while watching a movie. I've been in the same situation before, and thats what I did :D Still doin it too, and I'm feeling great!
2007-02-20 08:59:24 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If they know each other and you ask them both out you may end up with a not so good reputation. Now if you just really desire to ask one of them out, ask the one who you can see yourself with in the next 5~10 years. But remember one thing after you ask it may change your friendship.
2007-02-20 09:04:43 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok. well if you like both you need to choose one or the other. Try asking out the one while the other is sick or out of town. Try to get to know the other better and make your choice. If you pick one tell the other if you can still be friends. Hope this helps!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
2007-02-20 08:58:10 · answer #8 · answered by icesk8ergirl2180 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-02 11:19:14 · answer #9 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
that is a sticky situation... if you do what you are suggesting it's a double edge sword... if you ask out one the other might get upset you didn't ask him, but if the first one says no then the second one might get upset you didn't ask him first. the best thing to do is hold off and see which one you truly like and want to be with... otherwise just enjoy hanging out with both
2007-02-20 08:59:32 · answer #10 · answered by B-Diddy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋