A guy I'm kind of seeing has 2 other roommates, both single guys (but in established relationships) and both of which act really awkward around me because I'm preparing to divorce my husband. The last few boyfriend's I've had--their roommates have either avoided me or hated me immensely. I realize they're awkward because of my current marital status, but I'm scared about my past experiences and they've been friends with this guy since early highschool. I don't want to come between any of them, I want to be able to hang out with them and have fun!
How can I make friends with his roommates so that they don't loathe my presence, like others have before me? Is it like this with everyone's roommates? I'm generally a shy person and before I was always scared to talk to them. Should I be outgoing with them and attempt conversation?
I'm a nice person and I'm sure if they got to know me, they'd be cool with hanging out with me....I just don't know how to go about it!
2007-02-20 08:52:12 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
YOU DON'T HAVE TO WORRY ABOUT COMING BETWEEN FRIENDS, THAT WON'T HAPPEN AT ALL. FEMALES ARE A DIME A DOZEN AS FAR AS MALE FRIENDS ARE CONCERN. ONLY FEMALE LET MEN COME BETWEEN THEIR FRIENDSHIP. YOU REALLY DON'T HAVE TO HANG OUT WITH YOUR BF ROOMMATES IT'S NOT ABOUT YOU AND THEM IT'S IS ABOUT YOU AND HE.
2007-02-20 09:01:28 · answer #1 · answered by BLUE 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u don't need to worry about his roomates, ask yourself this question, are you dating him or his roomates? if he don't have a problem with it I wouldn't rock the boat.
2007-02-20 08:59:35 · answer #2 · answered by madtyga2002 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋