I heard they will either take advantage or not appreciate you as much. You have to let them work for it.
2007-02-20 08:51:06 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I think all these games of romance are poor foundations for a good relationship. Sure, it is fine to flirt and let the man know that you are attracted to him. Even ask him out on a date. But don't keep chasing a guy that is not interested in you. That will drive him away and destroy your self esteem too.
2007-02-20 08:55:12 · answer #1 · answered by Signilda 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
there's nothing wrong w/ going after what you want. however keep in mind that each man is different. some love being pursued. others love a little mystery.. and are more attracted to you if you let them do some of the chasing too. be comfortable with how you portray yourself to a man, and the right man for you will be respectful towards you no matter if you play hard to get or go after him.
2007-02-20 16:56:05 · answer #2 · answered by peaches87 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Is it "wrong"? No...but it does come across as desperate. If you have to chase that means the other person is running...if someone likes you, why would they run away?
I don't chase nor require others to chase me. Playing "hard to get" is just dishonest imo. Either I like them or I don't, and vice versa. If it's mutual then let's get on with the getting to know one another and not waste time playing silly games.
Expressing interest or making the first move is fine...that's not the same as "chasing.
2007-02-20 16:56:32 · answer #3 · answered by . 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends on what you mean by chase. Personally, I would love it. What an ego booster! If she is chasing after me I don't think I would be taking advantage of her. I'm assuming it would be what she wants and I would appreciate her for doing this. I may not have realized she was interested if she didn't chase me.
2007-02-20 16:55:44 · answer #4 · answered by Hibbler 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Men love to be chased. The trick is finding out your man is capable of returning the favor instead of becoming a pimp.
If your man is mature, he will tell you what he wants from you in a relationship. If it's not what you want, best not chase him.
2007-02-20 16:55:08 · answer #5 · answered by Your Uncle Dodge! 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think it is, but that's just me. If a man is really interested and "into" you, he's going to contact you someway, somehow. If you keep pursuing him, he'll do several things: he may go with you for a while, but not really appreciate the relationship, he'll take advantage of you, or he'll ignore you all together. Just be careful of your feelings.
2007-02-20 17:02:36 · answer #6 · answered by spyhopper 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
depends on the guy and the girl.
If you were slutty id probably take advantage, but if you were smart and fun to be around, then id chase back and make more out of it.
2007-02-20 16:54:59 · answer #7 · answered by crymsyneyes 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
True.. same is true if guy were to chase after a girl.. either way it's bad. It should be mutual feelings. Just think like that!
2007-02-20 16:54:40 · answer #8 · answered by Ichigo 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
There is a fine line between 'chase' and 'go after'...nothing wrong with going after what you want, if he is a willing recipient then alls the better eh
2007-02-20 16:59:54 · answer #9 · answered by brazenone 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I guess it depends. If the guy is on the shy side, it's nice to help him along. If the guy is totally not interested in you, you make yourself look desperate. If you throw yourself at a guy in a way that makes you look bad, something is terribly wrong with that. However, to make yourself look noticeable in such a way it draws a man to you, this will make him appreciate you more. This will also make you appreciate him.
2007-02-20 16:57:30 · answer #10 · answered by Honesty 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋