my friend sara and her bf david went out for 2 years then he left her for me. i liked him but i didnt go out with him cause sara is my friend but things between us havent ever been the same its been like a year since that happened and she still likes him but now i like him more then ever, i already have a bf who loves me but i havent told david about me and my bf, cause he wont talk to me if he knows cause they like hate each other. i dont know what to do.im not sure if i like my bf anymore cause i like david more, i know that me and him will never go out because of sara but i dont want to tell him about me and my bf. should i break up with my bf?
gah im soo confused
2007-02-20 08:44:22 · 7 answers · asked by nicole 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Simple...if you don't love your bf, break up. Don't do it because of anything else.
Deal with the other guy as a separate issue/person.
Talk with your gf. Is she a good enough friend that you would risk loser her over a guy who may not work out long-term?
Three issues/plans...you decide.
Good luck!
2007-02-20 08:49:12 · answer #1 · answered by mhcgjl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok, this is confusing. You want to break up with your boyfriend to be with a person that you would never go out with? I think that either you need to evaluate your friendship with Sara and either go out with David or don't. If you really value your friendship with Sara, you wouldn't go out with David and tell him about your boyfriend and be happy!! I know it's hard to pick sometimes, but if you dump your boyfriend for David, you'll probably lose a friend
(Sara). And girlfriends are always better than boyfriends! Since you say that you would never go out with David, I think it's time for you to move on.
2007-02-20 16:51:52 · answer #2 · answered by Sarah 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It doesn't say how old you are, but there are some incongruities that suggest you are young. If you are in high school, you can wait for David if you both know it's something real. And why do u have a boyfriend if you only want David? I would try not to date him yet if I would lose a good friend. Let them have their path.
2007-02-20 16:52:05 · answer #3 · answered by Your Uncle Dodge! 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think u should stay with your bf..thats the best thing to do, he does love you, well thats what u said but going out with ur friend ex-boyfriend would be kind of messed up and just plain wrong!..oh well do watever u feel like doing! its wat u feel!
2007-02-20 16:49:51 · answer #4 · answered by has_mean07 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i feel sory for u Kelsey. that is a suky situation.
do what u think is the best. do what u think would benifit you the most. do what u feel in your heart,mind,and soul. which eva decision u make will make u happy will satisy u the most.
Good Luk Kelsey!!!
*cRaZy ChIk*
2007-02-20 16:53:27 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont leave the one you love for the one you like coz the one you like will leave you for the one they love
2007-02-20 16:50:53 · answer #6 · answered by n4w05 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
think about this for a while....:
never leave the one you love for the one you like because the one you like will leave you for the one they love............
2007-02-20 16:52:44 · answer #7 · answered by erin 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋