I mean he act like he dont get it, I have done everything to make him c its over but he still comes around, constantly like we're a couple.
2007-02-20 08:42:07 · 13 answers · asked by pretty black 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
us guys are dumb. you have to tell us stright.
look him in the eye, and tell him "its over. i dont want you coming round here anymore".
its the only way.
2007-02-20 08:46:35 · answer #1 · answered by drunkredneck45 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get a new boyfriend to take care of him. I was w/ this chick for 2-3 months when she started getting really upset because her ex was basically stalking her. She was getting really upset for some reason, so I talked to him and one thing led to another and he got his @ss kicked after blindsiding me. She loved me for it, because he doesnt come around so much anymore. We're having some problems between eachother in the past day, but overall it worked out great. (This is like 7 months later)
Just get him to take care of it, or get a guy friend to take care of it.
2007-02-20 16:48:14 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
your ex is someone that cant let go, that makes him a possible danger to you. be careful on how you deal with him.
he wont take any of your words seriously, so perhaps he needs a bit more incentive to see the light...meaning you may need to find a new man in your life.
unless he is or goes completely psycho, seeing you and your new man together on more than one occassion may (i said MAY, not will) bring his obsession to a close.
2007-02-20 16:50:56 · answer #3 · answered by ? 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Send him away each time he comes. Get out and socialize with your friends so you are not always home when he comes around. Start living your life without him and he will be forced to start living his without you.
2007-02-20 16:47:29 · answer #4 · answered by Signilda 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be honest with him. Tell him that you just see him as a friend and you just don't feel the same. Tell him he is a nice guy and bring his self-esteem up and say that there will be someone else who likes him for who he is. (Kinda even out the "rejection.") You just don't feel the same way.
2007-02-20 16:45:46 · answer #5 · answered by ( Kelly ) 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be firm. Man it's over shoo shoo go some place else to hang out now. We are done dude.
2007-02-20 16:57:20 · answer #6 · answered by katie d 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You must not have spoken very clear to him. Just tell him that it is over, you don't care/love him anymore and that you don't want to see him. It's really that easy....and if he shows up...don't answer the door or phone...he'll get the message!
2007-02-20 16:46:56 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, I've found that certain phrases have a good effect, like:
"GET THE F*** OUT OF MY FACE NOW OR I WILL CALL THE COPS!"
If that doesn't work then you can stand in front of him, smile, and lift your knee fast and hard so that it lands in his groin area. That will probably get your message across to him.
FP
2007-02-20 16:46:48 · answer #8 · answered by F. Perdurabo 7 · 0⤊ 2⤋
. YOU SAID YOU HAVE DONE EVERYTHING TO MAKE HIM SEE, WHAT ABOUT TELLING HIM THINGS ARE NOT WORKING OUT. I WOULD LIKE TO END THIS RELATIONSHIP AND JUST BE FRIENDS.
2007-02-20 16:51:54 · answer #9 · answered by BLUE 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ignore him and don't allow him to come around, if he does grab the nearest man and pretend that you're with him
2007-02-20 16:45:51 · answer #10 · answered by madtyga2002 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋