I just had a final conversation with my boyfriend and he said all he can offer me is friendship at this point. We knew each other 6 years ago and dated then. We found each other again during the summer of 2006. He moved to my city, but now we are at the current situation. I waited 6 months for him to change and yet he didn't. I feel so lonely,sad and I cry all day long..I don't want to go out cuz it seem worst. Help.
2007-02-20 08:39:48 · 35 answers · asked by vegasbaby21679 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You need to stay busy. I know that sounds lame but it really will do you good just to simply stay busy. Volunteer, plant a garden, sew, etc.
2007-02-20 08:42:14 · answer #1 · answered by LSG 2 · 2⤊ 1⤋
I've been there.
Give yourself a set amount of time to cry over him (a week, maybe two) so you're not repressing yourself too much. Then do whatever you have to to distract yourself. Crank the radio up and sing at the top of your lungs (no sad songs), talk to friends (not about him), go for a walk. Whatever you do, don't dwell on him. It will take time, but eventually it won't be such a fight to not think about him. And after awhile, you'll realize that you hadn't even thought about him in days. It just takes time, and it's not easy, but stay away from the self-pity and the what-ifs.
2007-02-20 08:46:28 · answer #2 · answered by Mary K 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am sorry. It happened to me not long ago with a much longer relationship, so I speak with some experience. Time. Time is the only real healer of a broken heart. You can go out and start another relationship to take your mind off of him, but it is only a stop gap measure. You could end up doing something foolish and hurt someonelse. Get out, see a movie, go be with friends or family, anything not to be alone with him on your mind. Join a club in something you like to do, a sport that's fun or anything that gets you thinking of somethingelse. It is real hard I know but good luck.
2007-02-20 08:49:50 · answer #3 · answered by Pierre Patelin Longshanks 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well u r very sensitive and its time u get yourself together,deep in love and it all died now,but to keep holding on or memories is worst,come talk to ppl anyone let it out u will find comfort ,if u find no one i am a good listener and can help u turn the blues away forever lol smile the world is beautiful u have too see it in a positive way ,and anytime u want someone to listen or speak and u find no one y dont drop me a line take care
2007-02-20 08:47:12 · answer #4 · answered by reifguy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You cant change someones feelings. I know that a broken heart is a terrible thing to deal with. Best thing is to find good friends, go out and try new things, do something you have always wanted to do! Rediscover yourself. You never know what you may be missing. And your broken heart may find you a new love that will mend it forever.
I know it worked for me. Good luck
2007-02-20 08:45:54 · answer #5 · answered by mudd_grip 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know going out SEEMS to be worse, but it isn't. Keep doing this hon, your on the right track k? Yeah, i know they all say time...and they are right...time is the main factor i am sure you know...but even with time..to actually get over it...i got over stuff and get over things real easy now that i love myself and put me first. sorry this happened to you. :( Please go out and be around people as much as possible. When your alone, turn on the tv or read a book...anything to keep your mind off of it...and do whatever it takes to love you always.
2007-02-20 08:45:32 · answer #6 · answered by LM 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just know that its over no use in wasteing precious life time.life is short and one day ull look back and regret not living it to its fullest if you mope around sad about some guy. theres billion upon billions of people in this world get out there and meet some.if its meant to be then ur ex will realize that but lifes too short to be sad look at everything around you.dont u wanna experience it? meet new people? live! :]
2007-02-20 08:44:45 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
There are a lot of ways to get over a broken heart.
You could jump over it.
Do a handspring over it.
Go for a double kung-fu flip over it.
Ride over it with a bicycle.
Set up a zip-line and fly over it.
or my personal favorite...steal an M1 Abrams tank from an understaffed National Guard armory and drive over it veeeerrrryyyyyy slowly.
2007-02-20 08:46:21 · answer #8 · answered by El Gringo 237 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The only way your going to get over him is to get out there and get on with your life. I know it hurts but there is some one out there for you you will never know or meet him if you are sitting at home crying Life is way too short to do that have one last good cry and then get out there and have fun. have faith in yourself.
2007-02-20 08:51:15 · answer #9 · answered by blues girl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have to kiss alot of frogs before you find your prince! It just means you are one step closer to Mr. Right! Keep looking forward, not back! Just think of how happy you'll be when you do meet Mr. Right. You might miss him if you are letting yourself get down about one of the frogs! Go out, enjoy yourself, you never know when you will meet him!!
2007-02-20 08:45:12 · answer #10 · answered by wish I were 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Time, firends. Thats what helped me. True friends stayed by my side. No matter how bummed I felt they stayed and probably put on a front about being happy to be there but they did it. Eventually I came around and bought alot of rounds for those who helped me.
2007-02-20 08:44:17 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋