i don't know what to do. I feel like i'm losing control of my life. I'm so ready to drop out of school,i spend my days drinking and my nights doing drugs. I have sex with guys just so i can get money for my drugs. i can't go on like this. i don't what to do. i feel like i'm losing my mind. please help me!
2007-02-20 08:31:58 · 8 answers · asked by ✯ Andrea ✯ 5 in Health ➔ Mental Health
endless drama is clouding your consciousness
too much noise will overwhelm your senses
continual input obscures genuine insight
allow regular time for silent reflection
turn inward and digest what has happened
let your senses rest and grow still
teach yourself to let go of your superficial mental chatter and obsessions
teach yourself to pay attention to your whole body's reaction to a situation
when you have time to reflect
you can see more clearly what is essential to yourself and others
2007-02-20 09:34:45 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
You obviously know that you are doing wrong. YOu just need to take a step back and evaluate everything that is important...Like if you drop out of school, what would you do? You can't get a respectable job without a diploma, or GED...And what if you got pregnant? What would you do? What if you over dose? You need replace these harmful things with something wholesome...Im not saying you should turn into ms. Suzy homemaker...but find something to do with your hands. Talk to your friends (that don't do drugs) make new friends...read books..knit...cook..draw pictures..sew costumes...redecorate...anything...just don't stay on the same path..
2007-02-20 16:38:20 · answer #2 · answered by Bevin M 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all...
Stop with the drugs. I know its hard. But you have to stop, you have damaged your life by doing thtem, but you can biuld it back up by stopping.
Next, stop the sex. Its not meant for money, its meant for true love and wanting to raise a family. Just think, what if you got pregnant?
Stop drinking. Its gotta be hard, but the fact that your killing yourself right now might give you the courage to quit.
Dont drop out of school. Do your best. It is the 12 years that are going to get you where you need to go in life. Everything from your ABC's to Calculous...please stay.
If you need to e-mail me...go ahead we can tallk
MusicallyInclined10101@yahoo.com
Alex
Age:13
2007-02-20 16:37:15 · answer #3 · answered by Chuckle Monkey 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
you need to go to a pyschatrist, or a therapist. someone you can talk to about your problems. it's really confidential unless you say your going to hurt yourself or someone, things like that. you parents won't have to know anything. school is really important because it will help set you up for the rest of your life.
what i did was tell my mom i wanted to see a therapist and she didn't ask questions, if she did i would have said i don't feel comfortable talking about it but please just schedule an appointment. if you can't do that talk to a trusted adult or a school counselor. your therapist or counselor will suggest you attend rehab probably an outpatient but it depends on if you are addicted and to what. it will be a hard and bumpy road but things will be a lot better after it's done. i know from experience. good luck, stay strong.
2007-02-20 16:39:36 · answer #4 · answered by xogingerox 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go directly to the nearest emergency room or student medical facility. You need crisis intervention and detox immediately. It is okay to go to the hospital for this, they will definitely help you. You are also going to need to get tested for sexually transmitted diseases, please do not have unprotected sex as it can kill you. You do not have to drop out of school. If you need to, you can take a semester off to sort things out. Things will start getting better when you get help. Good luck, stay safe.
2007-02-20 16:40:00 · answer #5 · answered by greengo 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its just a matter of time. The addictions we grave need time to dissolve. Beleive in yourself. You need have time in which to acheive in your life and aim to be drug free. Drugs can stimulate so much yet take away our self respect. Please darling be patient.
2007-02-20 17:14:38 · answer #6 · answered by James W 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just know that I am here for you. Email me at eileenprince @ sbcglobal .net or just IM me. I know it sounds hard, but you can get out of the situation you are in, I promise.
2007-02-20 17:14:24 · answer #7 · answered by ashleyuvjra 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
get sychotrisist
2007-02-20 16:34:16 · answer #8 · answered by jdog8319 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋