my best friend asked him out while he was still with me! and he dumped me for her! who should i blame cuz she asked him but he dumped me!
2007-02-20 08:28:02 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Your boyfriend.......proves that he can't be devoted to you only
2007-02-20 08:31:56 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your to blame because you didn't look for warning signs. We white girls have a habbit of hanging out with our boyfriends and girlfriends at the same time. Thats a big NO NO. You must learn and believe me I've learned to keep my friends on one side and my "boyfriend" on the other. Friendly Flirting follows with curious minds that eventually follow through with its desires. Move on with your life and let them know that they are both pieces of shittt to you don't ever ever ever talk to either one of them again. Live life as if you never knew them and do things to better yourself. Like Justin Timberlake sings what goes around comes around he is just going to do the same to her.
2007-02-20 08:42:25 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
If you want to be mad at anyone then you should be mad at the guy for not using his head and talking to you, If wanted to date her in the first place why did he waste his time wanting to date you knowing that he would be dating her and your friend needs to be careful what she does, she might have stole your guy but you need to let her know that you did not appreciate it and that you will need to think about friends, as far as the guy is concerned you need to move on and find someone better and if you choose to continue to be friends with your best friend then so be it but that is a decision you and you alone will have to make.
2007-02-20 08:38:09 · answer #3 · answered by gordonflames242003 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he is mostly to blame for this because he is the one u had the commitment with, but she is definitely no friend. if he could be taken so easily u should be glad to be rid of him. many people don't realize what a person is really like until it is too late. personally she did u a favor. and she won't be treated any better than u were. he made the choice he could have said no to her.
2007-02-20 08:33:26 · answer #4 · answered by jude 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok first of all no matter how close you THINK you are with your so called bff!
Best friends don't do that....
Friends dont even do that.
I wouldn't be friends with her!!!
I have a best friend
She is like my sister literally inseprable
And we always tell each other we will never let a guy come between us!!!
He is guy they pull **** like that, but I would be disapointed in her!
2007-02-20 08:34:39 · answer #5 · answered by circusgirl322 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I totally agree with h.b.k. 2, but i have my own views!!! what is blaming gonna solve anyway, it wont change anything but it will make things worse??? and the question isnt who to blame, the question is how to get it over with, how to put it in the past. think about that one! good luck!
2007-02-20 08:35:14 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
They are both ***-holes, don't talk to either one. But really your "supposed best friend" is the worst why would she ask out the guy you were with?? Some friend.
2007-02-20 08:34:42 · answer #7 · answered by Stuck in the middle of nowhere 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Best friend my ***. Looks like you need a new best friend and a new boyfriend. Now you know who real friends are.
2007-02-20 08:36:52 · answer #8 · answered by Soul Survivor 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
take my advice and dump both of them.a guy doesnt deserve to b ur bf if he is that much of a filthy traitor and a girl is simply not worthy to b ur bestfriend if she is deliberately asking out YOUR dates.
2007-02-20 08:34:09 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
talk to him and her seperately. c wt they say. is she really ur friend? wt kinda bf will dump u for a friend? whose worth it? would u rather a freind or bf?--- in the long run?
2007-02-20 08:33:23 · answer #10 · answered by simplicity 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Blame them both and yourself. Them for doing that and you for letting it happen.
2007-02-20 08:32:13 · answer #11 · answered by H.B.K. 2 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋