okay i have this friend who likes our great guy friend he found out and asked her out she said yea but i like the same guy who is now her bf. but i like him a lot and they hardly talk they use me to communicate. i do love being friends with them both but if they break up will it ruin mine and his friendship or mine and hers? cause the other day he told me he liked someone else other than her i think it was me but i dk cause he wudnt say. plz help me with my problem.
2007-02-20 08:11:15 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
it is possible that it will break the friendship cause if it is u and u go out wit him ur friend might feel betrayed and she will not like u for a long time,possibly nvr again
2007-02-20 08:15:55 · answer #1 · answered by Gollum 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-16 02:57:58 · answer #2 · answered by balikos 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like you are a really good friend to both of these people. it is not your fault that this guy does not like your friend in the way she does him. even if the other girl that he likes is you he still wont stay with your girlfriend.
as for your feelings towards him. you really should just get them out in the open between them both when they break up. ask your girl friend if you would loose her as a buddy if you went out with him. if she says yes just remain being friends with him and nothing more.
2007-02-20 08:31:20 · answer #3 · answered by play hard 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It might ruin the friendship between you and her. Is he worth it? After all, she is accepting dates before they are even broken up yet.
2007-02-20 08:16:33 · answer #4 · answered by lisateric 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋