I have gained some weight (more than I would like but I am definitely not fat.) and, since then, my sex drive and increased immensely. My boyfriend says nothing about the weight gain (but I do know that he likes slender women) but has noticed the change in behavior. Here is the question: Do I lose the weight so that I look more attractive, at risk of losing my heightened sex drive? Is it more important to men to have an ideal looking woman or a "lustful" one?
2007-02-20 07:54:23 · 14 answers · asked by Geeky Girly 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Oh, by the way... I went from being very skinny to about average. In fact, I would probably still be classified as underweight by BMI. Since the weight gain, my menstrual cycle has been regulated since the hormones are steadied by increased fat percentage. (I know- TOO MUCH INFORMATION! I just wanted to clarify....) In that sense, weight gain has allowed the correct hormone level to return... :)
2007-02-20 09:24:29 · update #1
I think you don't need to ask. You are obviously more healthy (and I'm sure much more beautiful) now, and you weren't before.
If your boyfriend didn't like you now, it would mean that he has a problem and you have to find a new boyfriend. Just keep your healthy weight and your sex drive!
2007-02-21 07:32:35 · answer #1 · answered by bbjaga 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he doesnt like you for you then kick him, ive never heard of a woman increased sex drive from gaining weight, and ive been in the business a long time, if your happy with how you look why change for any man.
2007-02-20 08:07:53 · answer #2 · answered by terryodell42 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends on the man's preference. But usually, having an ideal looking woman would heighten the man's sex drive.
Does he like your change in behavior? If so, there isn't a problem, right?
2007-02-20 07:58:00 · answer #3 · answered by pertinential 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd rather have the sex drive than an skinny woman , as long as it's just a little extra cushion for the pushing .
2007-02-20 08:21:38 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you WANT to lose it, lose the weight for your health, not for your boyfriend.
Unless you are obese, love (and lust) sees beyond a handful of pounds. He probably loves the increased sex, and a little extra flesh is soft and fun to waller on.
It ain't the size of the ship, it's the motion of the ocean!
2007-02-20 07:59:58 · answer #5 · answered by View from a horse 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
aleks d are you saying enormous human beings cant have sex then? seem, i imagine you'll positioned your self available and in case you locate a guy who's satisfied for who you're then it might want to be authentic. highly if he doesnt stress you to regulate for him, as you would possibly want to purely replace for your self. all varieties make this international, yet at the same time, in case you opt for to drop extra pounds, for your self, then do it, no longer for everybody else. You dont might want to attend to have lost the burden to come back available. Who is prevalent with you would possibly want to locate a supportive boyfriend who's prevalent with you opt for to drop extra pounds, and may want to bypass for walks and motorbike rides at the same time. also dropping that weight (40lbs) isnt going to take position in one day in case you probably did opt for to lose it and keep it off, it might want to take you 6 months to a year, and then you want to go by a era the position you would possibly want to spotlight preserving it until eventually your new habbits are automatic to you. So I advise, do you opt for to attend 6 months to a year? it truly is likewise yet another ingredient you would possibly want to ask your self. some adult males discover higher women human beings extra of a turn on than anorexics, some arent stressful as sex isn't (fairly) each little thing as a relationship desires to be equipped on different issues as well. i imagine this fairly relies upon on a guy, and also adventure.if you're fairly experienced with sex, then you fairly can make a sturdy time of something contained in the sack. seem, goodluck, and keep us printed.
2016-10-17 08:16:22 · answer #6 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depends on the guy...
Although the question is, does he like the change in behavior? If he does, don't worry about it.
2007-02-20 07:57:40 · answer #7 · answered by froalskiner 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey i love heavy women (not fat), during sex, she can use her weight to give her movement more momentum, which can make sex better. Who wants a flyaway on top of you, you won't feel anything.
2007-02-20 07:57:18 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I doubt that your weight has anything to do with your sex drive.
2007-02-20 07:58:05 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Weight gain has nothing to do with sexual appetite. You need to lose the weight for health issues only and not to just please your boyfriend.
2007-02-20 07:58:18 · answer #10 · answered by pictureshygirl 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋