ok.here's the problem.i keep talking a lot abt my crush, & how cute he looks & some guys in his class had gone & told him that i talk of him in a wrong way & that i constantly keep on complimenting his looks.apparently,my crush thinks i'm a psychopath now(seriously-one of my friends had explained to him that it's just my hyper way of dealing with crushes & that it's my personality but he wasn't convinced)...now he's freaked out by everything i do.(he doesn't know me very well.we hardly talk & i assume he doesn't know my real character at all,or has even bothered to find out).when i confronted him abt this & apologised,he just told me that he didn't know who to trust.was this a wise thing to do?
plus i just want to know why he thinks i'm such a psycho.i mean,i don't think that ANYONE would be freaked out by compliments & attention,are they?
guys-what would you do in a situation like this?listen to your friends,or ask the girl herself?would you even give her a chance to explain?
2007-02-20 07:52:41 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
plus,he gave me a really bad & rude look when i asked him if i could talk to him to try & clear up the misunderstandings
2007-02-20 07:53:47 · update #1
First of all, if he is prejudging you before getting to know you...do you really want someone like that in your life? 2nd if he won't give you the courtesy of explaining he just ain't worth it...sounds like a superficial person...admire from afar but find someone who will appreciate your quirky ways...I guarantee there someone crushing on you but you can't see them because your eyes are on this dude...You deserve someone who thinks you are awesome just the way you are....Good Luck Girlfriend
2007-02-20 08:00:48 · answer #1 · answered by Sista-Girl 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You really need to chat with him and cut your friends out of the equation. If your friends are involved everything is going to get messed up. If you ask him do not be confrontational and ask him whats the deal? You interested? Also, quit being so vocal about your thoughts of him be excited but don't over do it, too much of anything is no good
2007-02-20 08:00:10 · answer #2 · answered by Chemicallyenhanced100 S 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well you know he is just a loser you need to find a new guy who understands you and has a better attitude
2007-02-20 07:58:37 · answer #3 · answered by Audrey♥ 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
he's a jerk, and i assume wouldn't like you for who you are, espeacially if he is being rude you deserve better. I hate it when guys do stuff like this, my damn gender.
2007-02-20 07:56:31 · answer #4 · answered by aphotic nostrum 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
it kinda sounds like your obsessed with him...just tell him how you feel...dont go blabbing around school how much you like him, if your not going to ask him out...
2007-02-20 07:58:32 · answer #5 · answered by kauaichic420 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋