I have been in my current relationship for almost a year and have been happy about 20% of the time within the last 4 months. So, here's the question. I have been training with a personal trainer who I have been fond of prior to her training and prior to my relationship but never was vocal about it. Since I have been training with her I cannot stop thinking about her and every time I hold my girlfriend I am thinking of her. I am positive she would take me up on the offer but I'm not going to play someone else. Also, I don't want to kick this girl out but I have allowed myself to fall for someone else
2007-02-20 07:51:02 · 4 answers · asked by Chemicallyenhanced100 S 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It's not a good sign. How did you measure your happiness with her beign 20%? That doesn't sound good at all. I would call what you are doing as mentally cheating, if there is such a thing. You're not being fair to your current girlfriend. Either get your mind off of the other woman or, if you can't, you should end the current relationship. You're not being fair to you or your girlfriend.
2007-02-20 07:57:03 · answer #1 · answered by voodoo man 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If your only happy 20% of the time, then end the relationship and start one with the person you want to be with.
2007-02-20 07:55:23 · answer #2 · answered by SHELLBELL 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well it's sounds like it's too late to rekindle anything with your current love. If you really care for her, let her go, and try this trainer girl out.
2007-02-20 07:55:06 · answer #3 · answered by akiastatz 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Be fair to yourself and your current girlfriend. End it now and set both of you free to be with someone real.
2007-02-20 07:57:32 · answer #4 · answered by lisateric 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋