MY COUSIN'S BOYFRIEND IS MY BEST FRIEND AND I HAVE KNOWN HIM SCINCE I WAS IN 6TH GRADE AND I LIKE HIM, I FEEL LIKE CAUSING THEM TO SPLIT UP AM I HORRIBLE?
2007-02-20 07:42:53 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Not horrible for thinking about it....would be wrong and extremely inconsiderate to actually follow through with what you're thinking.
There will be many bfs throughout your life...but, family lasts a lifetime. Watch it. This is really where the "do unto to others..." saying comes into play.
2007-02-20 07:47:24 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you are a good person, you wouldn't break them up. That all depends on what type of person you are. If they have a good relationship, and you know the difference between right and wrong then there wasn't even a need to ask this question. Don't be a fool. If you did break them up, you might find out that he might not even like you, then what? Trying to pursue something you can't have, sounds like your searching for pain and disappointment. good luck to you, i hope you make the right decision.
2007-02-20 07:50:31 · answer #2 · answered by aphotic nostrum 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sure you're horrible for thinking of hurting your cousin and your friend.
2007-02-20 07:47:33 · answer #3 · answered by Raven 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes. It is wrong. But you're not horrible. Are you trying to turn your cousin's bf into gay? If so, I don't think you should. There's nothing wrong with sexual orientations. It's just wrong to interfere with people's life.
2007-02-20 07:47:32 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if its because you like your cousin then yes its wrong. if you're doing it because you feel that she is not a right match for your cousin even though she is your best friend then no, because you are looking out for both of them.
2007-02-20 07:47:03 · answer #5 · answered by parveeahmed 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you arent horrible but that thought isnt right. you shoud break up your cousin and her boyfriend. If it wasnt meant to be with them then it will end on its own. but you dont want the guilt on your shoulders when you know you broke them up.
2007-02-20 07:47:09 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are not horrible, but the act of purposely breaking them up for selfish reasons would be! If she won't share him, you should just wait and see if your feelings change or they break up on their own later on.
2007-02-20 07:46:56 · answer #7 · answered by barefoot_always 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you are not horrible, your cousins boyfriend might have feelings for you to and that is why they might be splitting up
2007-02-20 07:49:31 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if they are happy together, leave them...and what do you mean you like your cousins boyfriend? as in you want him to yourself (boyfriend) does he feel the same? ask him questions on how he would feel if he were to help someone in the same situation.
2007-02-20 07:47:54 · answer #9 · answered by LoStN8tive 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, if you have a good reason for the 2 not to be together then it's ok. if their is some feelings like jealousy try to find out why. if you have no reason it isn't wrong but just leave it to fate.
2007-02-20 07:48:24 · answer #10 · answered by Peachy Keen 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋