You spend time with a girl who is on vacation and get to know eachother pretty well. She tells you she wants you there when she leaves and the day she leaves she hugs and kisses you. I was expecting a bye nice to have met you or something like that, but no she hugged and kissed me and said see you in the summer. What does this mean that I have to do when I see her again? Do I continue where we left off by just hanging out when I see her or should I do something like say maybe I want to go see her? She is 18 and lives in England. I like her alot, but I wasnt sure about how she really felt about me thats why I was a little surprised when she hugged and kissed me. What do you think of this?
2007-02-20 07:30:25 · 14 answers · asked by DJIAE 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
The summer is a long way off when you are young ,free, and single. She had a nice vacation and hugged you because it is nice to hug someone, no deep meaning, just a fond farewell.
You may meet again , you may not, take it as it comes, get on with your life. A few hugs and kisses are nice don't read too much into it !!!
2007-02-20 07:48:02 · answer #1 · answered by Dolly Blue 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The whole "kissing and hugging" thing would be a cultural thing, rather than a romantic thing. Don't make too much of it; you sound like you had a great time together, and if she's only 18, it's not like you to should be committed to each other. You might want to just try staying in contact with her via emails or occassional phone calls, and then if/when you meet again in the summer, pick up where you left off.
Don't read too much into it. Just enjoy it and try not to over think it.
2007-02-20 15:36:03 · answer #2 · answered by Kevin H 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It sounds to me as though you are thinking too much. In the UK a simple kiss and hug means no more than thank you it has been nice meeting and being with you. If she did not ask you to contact her then thats probably as far as it goes.
2007-02-20 15:36:59 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think that she must like you or else she wouldn't have said this to you. did she kiss you passionately? because that will make a lot of differance. maybe you should phone her and ask her how she feels. and why did she say she would see you in the summer? have you made prior arrangements to meet up? if yes then just see how it goes, if you are still unsure then phone her and tell her that it wasn't clear. also by the time that summer comes along, one of you could have met somebody else so if you really like her and you do not want her to meet somebody else then you should tell her how you feel
2007-02-20 15:43:40 · answer #4 · answered by confused 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Girls like attention. It sounds like since it was a vacation thing she will remember you, but she doesn't want anything from you. She had fun and a hug and kiss was her way of finishing her vacation the way she wanted. In control of the relationship the 2 of you had. She left you thinking of her, and she's back in england.... forget about it
2007-02-20 15:34:38 · answer #5 · answered by Kind_Heart 2 · 3⤊ 1⤋
Why are all the English girls going back home all of a sudden?!?!
She was probably just swept up in the moment and really liked your company...obviously.
...and you won't picked up where you left off. Move on with your life...as she will...and hopefully when/if she comes back in the summer, you can start something up again.
2007-02-20 15:34:39 · answer #6 · answered by Slimslimmer 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I think it sounds like fun. She is attractive and interesting to you than see where it leads. If anything at all it sounds like a good time and you have nothing to loose.
Good Luck..
2007-02-20 15:35:58 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Maybe she will come back, maybe she wont.... sounds like a bit of Summer Lovin "Danny is this the end???? No, its only the beginning'....
2007-02-20 15:34:54 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
she likes u if she did that. if was me i would have done the same thing if u were hot. jsut tell her how u feel for her and see if she feels the same way about u. then take if from there. good luck honey.
2007-02-20 15:37:41 · answer #9 · answered by Angel 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It just ment she had a good time hanging out with you and looks forward to doing it again...do not read anything into it.
2007-02-20 15:35:05 · answer #10 · answered by jeeccentricx2 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋