Everything was well with my gf of 4 months, we both love each other dearly and she has told me that nothing can change how much she loves me!!
Today I sense a problem, she was ignoring me I ask her if there is a problem and she says no "I am stressed and in a bad mood" I then ask her about it and if I have to do with it and she says no. She then leaves school citing "family reasons" as the issue (i want to believe that but who knows it could jus b an excuse).
I call her today and thell her that I am feeling sympathy feelings and she says thats sweet of me but she "needs sum space to figure stuff out".
The last 4months hav been perfect and I dont want this to end. Do you thing "the space" signifies a break up or do you think she might have some issues that need to be taken care of.
2007-02-20 07:24:33 · 18 answers · asked by vincy015 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It means she wants you to leave her alone to figure her **** out.
2007-02-20 07:27:15 · answer #1 · answered by Melissa S 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think she just needs time 2 figure stuff out n "take a step back". If it is family issues then she's probably feeling sufocated and confused.You should give her some space but keep letting her no that you're still there for her, that will make her feel conforted and it will also reassure her.I shouldn't worry about it too much, once she's solved her problems she'll b back in no time :) good luck
2007-02-20 15:35:07 · answer #2 · answered by xo-Stacey-ox 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all, she may be having some difficulties in your relationship. You can't know until she tells you. Second of all, and this probably doesn't help, but in high school I dated a guy for about 3 or 4 months, and everything was great. We had so much fun together (even though we were young), and then one day in my chem class it hit me like a ton of bricks that I didn't know if I wanted to be with him. It was the weirdest of all things. I ended up avoiding him for awhile, and we broke up.
I am not saying that is what happened, but it can! She may be having some family problems, and if that is the case, then you need to be there for her. If she needs space, give it to her, but be supportive.
I hope it works out for the best!
2007-02-20 15:30:05 · answer #3 · answered by Kate 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
As she left school citiing "family reasons" it is most likely something going on within her family that she is either embarrased about (like a finding out a parent is having an affair and/or getting a divorce, financial trouble, parent fired from job, sister pregnant or something along those lines) or a family member is critically or terminally ill and she is still in shock and not ready to accept it herself, let alone say it out loud to anyone else to begin to discuss it.
Only time will tell for sure. Send her a card to let her know you are there for her if she ever wants to talk about it that you are there for her and let her have her space for now.
2007-02-20 15:34:22 · answer #4 · answered by bottleblondemama 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
really depends on how long u have been together . i would say if it has been a long time u have been a couple than u need to give her time to resolve them it could be just her and her problems and she needs the space to be alone to figure them out not allow her space will only push her away , but if u love her let her know still otherwise she will feel u have left her in the dark and alone
2007-02-20 15:30:51 · answer #5 · answered by donna m 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She def seems like she's going through something and she does need some space. I don't think it has anything to do with u. Rather than her show u attitude and treat u bad bc of what she's going through, she's just telling u she needs space to avoid that. Give her a while, she'll be back
2007-02-20 15:28:44 · answer #6 · answered by svictor24 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Trust that she's telling you the truth and give her the space she needs. Even if it is an issue with your relationship, bugging her won't make things better. Just make sure she knows you are there for her if she needs you.
2007-02-20 15:32:33 · answer #7 · answered by gerrifriend 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
rather than bugging her, I would suggest saying something like,
"let me know if I can do anything to help you out" and give her space. Maybe say, "I will call you in the morning, (or whatever time)" so she doesnt think you are abandoning her,but you arent nagging either.
2007-02-20 15:29:23 · answer #8 · answered by stellabella 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I don't think it is because she wants to break up maybe shes mad at a friend or something like that just leave her alone untill she decides to tell you about it.
2007-02-20 15:30:12 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
ask her, but the space thing is normally a blow off or excuse. A way out
2007-02-20 15:28:17 · answer #10 · answered by kizdrop 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wats ben gng on btwn u 2 during the time apart
2007-02-20 15:37:37 · answer #11 · answered by ~*Star*~ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋