If a man broke up with you because you stopped calling him as much, since you started a new schedule and were still adjusting, and he thinks that you are avoiding him... then you talked to him and he wants to talk about it and maybe work it out, what would you do? What if it was the second time he broke up with you, the first time he thought you were cheating when you weren't? You really like this guy. He treats you great, except that he seems to misunderstand your actions a lot. (We are talking about adults that have been married and divorced in the past). Thanks.
2007-02-20 07:24:03 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Married to other people, not eachother.
2007-02-20 07:46:19 · update #1
move on and find someone who cares enough about you to never second guess you.. you need TRUST in a relationship. i don't care if you like this guy or not.... if he Broke Up with you already then he obviously has Thought that the relationship has lost its value and if one person doesn't want the relationship fully and can't dedicate their whole heart to it, then why would you want to put up with that?! what happens if you get married and have kids.. will he just divorce you because you are paying too much attention to your new born baby compared to him. get real. if he doesn't UNDERSTAND YOU then he doesn't understand your relationship.. and you deserve someone who does. this guy has major control issues.. and if they bug you now, they will Always bug you.
2007-02-20 07:31:28 · answer #1 · answered by coolio 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok, first of all, it's good to know you're finally not 2 15 year olds blowing out of proportion like is usually the case on here.
When you say that you were married and divorced in the past, I really hope you don't mean to each other. Because if this is an unending cycle, get off the ride!
If it was with other people, it sounds like he still has a lot of unresolved issues left over from previous relationships. You need to let him know he gets one more chance (if you are willing to put up with him). Tell him he shapes up and cuts out all this jumping to conclusions and making accusations or you're leaving.
If he does it again - you leave for good and find you a man worth having.
2007-02-20 15:31:05 · answer #2 · answered by teel2624 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would think about it first and then Make my choice, because that was a stupid thing to break up with someone.. But if you like this guy or even love him the get back with him its not like you cheated on him..
2007-02-20 15:47:03 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Never go backward. Ever.
2007-02-20 15:30:20 · answer #4 · answered by Pretending To Work 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋