I'm going out with a guy:
Its soooooooo occward, we're in high school...he rarely eva meets up with me, we're too shy to call eachotha, because when we were friends we never called, we just got info of others if a group of us are gonna go out, its never been just us, we just liked how we acted and looked...and in school he hangs around with a complete different set of people from me,. and i cant join his group cause i dont like them, and they dont like me, and their all popular like him...HELP!!!
2007-02-20 07:23:09 · 22 answers · asked by CompleteCreation90 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
chill chill. Maybe you guys should find time to hang out with just the two of you, like maybe 5-10 minutes at lunch, that way you can both still hang out with your own friends, but your able to still be together. Um, call eachother. if you never talk then you might as well break up. and if you like him for more than just his good looks and he likes you for more than your good looks, you both should want to make compromises for eachother.
2007-02-20 07:28:33 · answer #1 · answered by savanna m 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow, fist you guys really need to spend some quality time together. If you really like each other it won't matter who is around. Dating in high school is suppose to be fun. If the both of you are to conserned about what others will think you really need to sit down and discuss why your even together.
2007-02-20 15:31:35 · answer #2 · answered by Danisha R 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I can relate to your situation. If he likes you he will listen to you. Tell him that your not comfortable and that shy stuff...its kinda ya know...old.Whateva u gotta say go ahead because you never know if there will be a tomorrow. If he really cares for you he would understand and want to spend more time together. But if he doesnt theres always someone esle.(and trust me there is)
2007-02-20 15:33:41 · answer #3 · answered by Shyeeda 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, that doesn't sound like a very good relationship to me. Maybe you should tell him that you don't want to be with him unless he starts hanging out with you in school. Sounds difficult to do but do you really want to date someone who doesn't even acknowledge you around his "group" of friends?
2007-02-20 15:27:33 · answer #4 · answered by amberlynne_2007 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you guys aren't really dating. If you guys are too shy to talk to each other, how are you supposed to have a relationship? Oh yeah and if his friends are what are important to him then there's no chance b/c you can't make ppl like you. I would say that you need to both move on. Sounds like it would be silly to continue this non-relationship relationship.
2007-02-20 15:28:34 · answer #5 · answered by Ericka H 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
So, how do you know you are going out with this guy? Sounds like you are friends that hang out.
I guess I would suggest trying to spend some alone time with him. If he likes you and you like him, you guys should spend time together and relate to each other. At this point, it sounds like you are only friends!
2007-02-20 15:27:14 · answer #6 · answered by stellabella 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just call him and take a chance with something that u never have done. have confidence and take a risk and see what happens. a relationship needs communication for it to last.
2007-02-20 15:28:16 · answer #7 · answered by Angel 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hmm... give it some time. if it doesn't get better then you should tell him about it. If you don't tell him then your relationship cant really go anywhere. Without trust, there is no relationship. Right?
2007-02-20 15:27:44 · answer #8 · answered by Kris 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i understand that you are shy but if you can try and talk to him. if that doesnt work it may be time to move on. find someone you are more compatible with and that you can enjoy your time with. good luck.
2007-02-20 15:27:20 · answer #9 · answered by Lauren ♥ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
LMFAO!!! "OCCWARD"?????? LOL./ You mean awkward...... Sorry about that. Anyways, there is no problem. He or you shouldn't have to change friends EVER! Just try to compromise.
2007-02-20 15:35:11 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋