Have any of you girls ever written an email to your ex and tell him what kind of a jerk he was after broken up?
(broken up with my ex a year ago. he treated me horribly but at the same time told me that he loved me every day. we went on a break and he cheated on me within a week. after a week he wanted to get back but i said no. even until now he would park his car by my house and stalk me. i never got a chance to tell him what a jerk he was and on valentine's day (a week ago) he wrote to me again and told me he loved me and blamed me for our break up. )
2007-02-20 07:07:19 · 9 answers · asked by 8300162 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Have any of you girls ever written an email to your ex and tell him what kind of a jerk he was after broken up?
(broken up with my ex a year ago. he treated me horribly but at the same time told me that he loved me every day. we went on a break and he cheated on me within a week. after a week he wanted to get back but i said no. even until now he would park his car by my house and stalk me. i never got a chance to tell him what a jerk he was and on valentine's day (a week ago) he wrote to me again and told me he loved me and blamed me for our break up. )
EDIT: he would accuse me for cheating when im simply at the grocery store with mom, or when my brothers called, he would say that's my other boyfriends.
2007-02-20 07:21:05 · update #1
Any assault on him after this fashion will only gratify his desire to ascribe blame to you. If he sees you riled up over the relationship, he'll simply assume smugly that he was right in thinking you were to blame. It's not worth it.
Only love nourishes the soul, so if it's not love, simply let it go. --unknown poet
2007-02-20 07:13:28 · answer #1 · answered by Fergi the Great 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ha i just did email my kind of ex a couple weeks ago!!!! It was the best ever cuz i could say what i wanted and think about it before i sent it and we cleared things up.... it was so good, i'm over him now;) good luck hope you find yoru prince soon
2007-02-20 15:12:03 · answer #2 · answered by shine_on 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes
2007-02-20 15:09:33 · answer #3 · answered by Melissa S 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No I haven't done it but it seems to me that you should let the jerk have it. Why not?! E-mail the bum. Get it out of your system and move on to somebody thats really into you.
2007-02-20 15:15:17 · answer #4 · answered by Welcome, to the real world! 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's a jerk. Forget about him. It's been a year, time to move on.
2007-02-20 15:11:21 · answer #5 · answered by Jewel 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Lets see, you were on a break? How did he cheat? If a man goes on a "break" from his realtionship then its a free butt pass........
Why would you let your boyfriend go, if he is the right one then you wouldn't be taking breaks!
2007-02-20 15:13:50 · answer #6 · answered by blondieinlove 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
hell yea i have!!!! and i haven't regretted it either! hun you betta not get back with this prick! if hes tellin you he loves u AND tellin u its all ur fault...uh uh
everyone knows that it's never the girls fault...well, at least not out loud. if he really loved you he wouldn't even pull that
2007-02-20 15:11:22 · answer #7 · answered by baby_toiger 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No face to face is better
the dude wont know what to say.
2007-02-20 15:11:39 · answer #8 · answered by redhottreject06 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No I haven't I think it's degrading........
2007-02-20 15:10:19 · answer #9 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋