im meeting this guy in oklahoma on saturday its the first time meeting him and he wants to have sex with no protection but i have a feeling thats all he wants to do is that. I dont want to waste money to see him and then feel cheap bc i drove all that way to do that. if i go up there and thats all he has in mind should i leave right away and head back home if thats all he wants to do
2007-02-20 07:00:25 · 22 answers · asked by Hayley H 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
save your time and money. Go home and find someone who will treat you with respect. Better yet, respect yourself and be with people that truly care about you. Keep your mind off of the horndog.
Whoever is giving thumbs down to these answers is an idiot.
2007-02-20 07:03:55 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 4⤊ 1⤋
first of all, it is not a good idea for you to be driving all that way to accommodate him. You are also putting yourself in a vulnerable position if he were to just want sex from you and you refused. You sound needy and desperate to go to such lengths to go and see him. I feel it should be him to make all the efforts to come see you. You are starting off this relationship on the wrong foot and I fear you will learn to regret it later. What happened to the guy chasing the girl? Stop making it so easy for him. You tell him if he wants to come see you then he will have to come to you. If he agrees to this, then make arrangements to meet him in a social setting. Avoid being alone with him as this will put you in an awkward position. Hope you at least give some thought to what I have said. Take care and best of luck to you!
2007-02-20 07:54:13 · answer #2 · answered by pictureshygirl 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I dont think I would go if he already mentioned unprotected sex. First of all you dont know him and he could be anyone if you have only talked on the net. That brings me to my 2nd point, what if he's an online predator.....think b4 u act. And if you still really wanna go....take a friend for back up. Drop them off in a safe spot like a mall or something and make them check in to make sure u r ok......got it. Be safe, not sorry
2007-02-20 07:04:31 · answer #3 · answered by kizdrop 3 · 3⤊ 0⤋
If you haven't even met him yet and he's already talked about having sex, that's ALL HE WANTS. You're just going to waste a lot of gas money and time if you go to meet him. Just stay at home and sleep late.
2007-02-20 07:06:12 · answer #4 · answered by spelling nazi 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Are you flippin nuts? How do you know this guy isn't a murderer or worse. You really need to put your head on a little tighter. Don't go and meet him. You basically told us he just wants sex. What if you get there he wants sex and you decide to leave and he decides he isn't going to take "no' for an answer. This whole scenario invokes creepiness................wow.
2007-02-20 07:08:33 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Listen to your soul it is talking to you. you obviuosly know the right thing to do. You just met and he wants to have unprotected sex that shows he do not care about himself farless you. No do not leave and waste gas if when you get there thats is all he wants , please there is to many psychoes out there do not put yourself at risk, if you want to hang out find someone closer and your girlfreinds. But not not the guy he is is showing you already what he wants, what about unwanted pregnancy or std. You putting that aside just to hang out. Reality check he is not worh it .
2007-02-20 07:07:34 · answer #6 · answered by PiNeApPle 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you shouldnt be trying to have sex with someone you meeting in person for the first time. its okay to hang out but if you do have sex PROTECTION IS A MUST. you really cant be that dense can you.
2007-02-20 07:09:45 · answer #7 · answered by peachez 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wow, wake up girl! Don't go...and don't ever have sex unprotected....and i you just met him and you have already talked about sex....i think it's a sure sign that's all he's after. Save the money and hang out with some girlfriends.
2007-02-20 07:08:06 · answer #8 · answered by Jenna S 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
That is all that he wants to do, he already let you know that he wanted to have sex with you with no protection. I know it is tough being alone, but you should stay in your area and find a man who will treat you with respect, you will also have to respect yourself for that to happen. Best of luck to you, always settle for the best...
2007-02-20 07:06:33 · answer #9 · answered by Thomas 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You shouldn't go at all what if he is a psychopath, what if he has an incurable disease why would you be that desperate to get a man shame on you don't lower yourself like that..Because you know that is all he probably wants so stay home or go have fun doing something else..
2007-02-20 07:05:09 · answer #10 · answered by Mary O 6 · 4⤊ 0⤋