do u think its appropriate if a married young lady joins in on the throwing of the bouqet at a friend wedding?
2007-02-20 06:59:22 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Weddings
no because its for singles, thats the tradition. theres no exception for friends, she could be in the wedding and get her own flowers. and besides if she caught the boquet, then all the other girls wouldnt think it was fair.
2007-02-20 07:14:34 · answer #1 · answered by loveboatcaptain 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The throwing of the bouqet is for singles! Sybolizing the one who catches the bouqet is the next to get married. Married couples should not attend this part of the reception.
2007-02-20 07:07:53 · answer #2 · answered by C_ster 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You mean trying to catch it?
I've seen that done several times actually. Usually they need more people standing, trying to catch. Whoever is taking pictures has usually suggested it at the weddings I've been to. As long as the bride doesn't mind & the married lady doesn't mind I don't see the big deal. I think throwing the bouqet is more of a photo opt more than anything anymore.
2007-02-20 07:03:58 · answer #3 · answered by layla983 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
it's such a stupid and meaningless tradition. Honestly, don't even tell me that these girls are dumb enough to believe if they catch a boquet of flowers they are really next. FALSE, however, I've been at weddings (avoiding the whole boquet situation) and seen single girls get really pissed off at engaged and married chicks for trying to catch it. It's just so petty and ridiculous. If it's going to be a situation then don't throw it at all.
2007-02-21 02:42:32 · answer #4 · answered by Jersey Style 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I've been to a couple wedding where this happened. They didn't have enough single women. I mean like there was only one. So they got other women and some of the little girls to join in. I didn't see any harm in it. It woulda been kinda sad with just one person out there.
2007-02-20 09:54:37 · answer #5 · answered by benjis.girl 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It's for single girls ONLY! My sister tried to jump in on the tossing of the bouquet at a wedding. Her husband was away on business and I guess she was feeling a bit single that night. Totally wrong. Plus it takes away from the meaning of tossing the bouquet. The one who catches it is the next one to get married. So...I say...nope...tell her to sit down.
2007-02-20 09:27:37 · answer #6 · answered by Michele K 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
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2016-11-24 20:31:46 · answer #7 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Completely Innappropriate! This is a tradition for SINGLE women only...
Wow...what if her husband saw her do that? He'd be PO'd I bet!
2007-02-20 07:02:51 · answer #8 · answered by Toots 6 · 3⤊ 0⤋
It is completely inappropriate. It is also inappropriate for small children (not of marriageable age) to participate as well.
2007-02-20 07:13:07 · answer #9 · answered by stseukn 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no! It is only for single girls/women.
It would ruin it for the single girls if she caught it.
2007-02-20 07:07:27 · answer #10 · answered by Dizney 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋