Yes there are a lot of us GOOD MEN out here. You just choose the WRONG ones. Just be yourself. We will find you.
2007-02-20 07:06:11
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answer #1
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answered by Monty L 5
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Depends on what you are asking for in a relationship. Are you spoiled and expect to be treated like a princess? Are you hard working and want someone who's values are the same as yours? Do you "let yourself go" physically after the wedding? There must be some underlying reason you have had three failed marriages. Maybe there is a "trait" in all three of these men that you have found attractive and it really didn't pose a solid ground for life long commitment. I have an unmarried son. Hard working, not a lot of time for a social life. But I honestly wouldn't want him to hook up with a woman who has already been through 3 men!
2007-02-20 07:07:06
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answered by janice 6
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There are good men out there. But you have to require a man to respect you. The minute he starts treating you bad, then you need to say goodbye. Don't get attached to them on the first date. As soon as you realize that he is not the man you are looking for, them move on. Don't meet guys at bars or online. Just relax and go about your life. Form friendships with men, then see what happens from there. THose are the relationships that last anyway. Just stop looking for the right man, and start looking for friends. Make it clear to your ex's that you have no interst and that they should leave you alone. Be a strong woman, not a feminist, just a strong woman. Stop Needing men, when you learn to do things for yourself, without a man in your life, your relationships will get better. My philosophy is, that I can mow my own lawn, pay my own bills, take my own car to the shop, shovel my own snow, etc... But I won't complain if there is a man around to do all that for me.
2007-02-20 07:07:58
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answered by Anonymous
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Well you have made some poor choices with men. Personality clash I like to call it, lol. The best thing you can do is let love find you. Get to know them as "friend" first and foremost. Don't be intimate with them before you really get to know them. Because if you do, you will find out that you know them sexually but you never know them as a person at all. Almost all of the time, you will ask yourself, who is this guy? So good rule of thumb. Get to know them as a friend. If they are interested they will hang with you until you are ready. If they don't, it wasn't meant to be.
2007-02-20 07:59:42
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answered by Anonymous
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there always good men out there but you just have not meet the right person.. You can go on dates and not get to know each other... it not like one date you know him for life... It take time to know someone... i date my husband for 4 years till we got marry..
You should stop looking for while until someone come and it maybe the right guy.... and not everyone can marry rich people... Just be single for sometime.. and maybe the next guys comes get know him.. and you do not like him break up with him and find another... or you can always hang out with someone at work after work.. and get to know them outside of work... or you can sign up dating please online...
2007-02-20 07:04:28
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answered by babyg 4
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I have a friend that is always looking for love, so I'll tell you what I always tell her. "A good man will find you, so stop looking". You can look for Mr. Right-Now, but when it's time for you to meet Mr. Right, it'll just hit you like a ton of bricks, you'll never see it coming. So relax and stop looking for "The One" if you haven't found him, it's probably because your not ready for him, anyways. When the time comes, he'll find you. Good luck!
2007-02-20 07:05:44
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answer #6
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answered by Leohades 2
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Sounds to me like you've been making GREAT choices NOT to stay with those guys (who want to cheat on their wives with a former flame) and KEEP LOOKIN'. I'm older than, well... and I have a few former flames of my own, and I think I've finally found the right one. Don't settle, honey, the right guy for you is out there!
2007-02-20 07:03:04
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answered by Zebra4 5
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dudette Zodiac signs are a total help! o_~ you should check up on all of em and see which one you would like tha most when I did that I found tha perfect guy and weve been goin out for 8 months now! sorry but i cant help you on da meeting dem part
2007-02-20 07:13:42
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answered by UndeadNitemare 2
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when u find out the way not to choose the wrong guys. let me know i have the same problem. i feel u...good luck
2007-02-20 07:02:50
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answered by prchik 5
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What charcateristics have you chosen?
Handsome, nice car, nice money, spending money, treats you like..., nice hair, nice clothes
Now write that down what you really want
stable, loving, respectable, caring, genuine, employed
interesting, humorous
2007-02-20 07:03:41
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answered by god knows and sees else Yahoo 6
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