If you have been dating 6 months and he spends all of his free time with you, tells you he loves you, has you around his family, friends, etc a lot, is constantly doing things around your house like cleaning your garage out, planting trees etc, tells you he is serious about you, calls to check on you if the weather is bad and you are driving in it etc. is there any way to know if this is moving towards marriage? Is it ok to ask that question? How long should it be before you should worry that marriage isn't coming up in conversation? Or should you even be thinking about this at all?
2007-02-20 06:56:40 · 6 answers · asked by zyllee 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Oh yeah but not in a rush to get married, just worried a little about serial monogamists.
2007-02-20 07:02:33 · update #1
Guess also since I am 31 and have never had kids I don't want miss out on having them.
2007-02-20 09:54:44 · update #2
Guys are simple...he cares about you, and your well being. He may be thinking about it, but you never know. 6 months is quite a short time frame, so I thinking keeping the topic under wraps for now, is a good idea.
You will know when the time is right for the two of you to have the marriage talk (or the future talk), but there really is no time frame on when it will happen. If, down the line, you believe that he is the one you want to spend the rest of your life with, and it has not come up, then it would be time to bring it up. There is no need to stay in a relationship unless you are both wanting the same things.
What a sweet guy you have, too!
2007-02-20 07:05:59 · answer #1 · answered by Kate 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Longer than 6 months. All the other stuff is fine but don't push it. As a man its can push i guy away. I dated a girl for a year and 2 months in she started talking the marriage stuff and just kept pushing. She really give it time to develop. maybe talk about it but don't say things like when we get married and have kids, that's a lot of pressure on someone. Give it time to develop.
2007-02-20 15:09:50 · answer #2 · answered by redjake 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I just asked him what he saw in the future, or if he was even thinking about it. Made it easy to know what to expect. And in my case, he became my husband. But at the time that I asked, he said he wasn't sure, he was just going with the flow for the time being. He actually asked several months later.
2007-02-20 15:21:43 · answer #3 · answered by Raising6Ducklings! 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds to me like he loves you but that doesn't mean you should rush into marriage, I was with a girl for 7 years and it ended up not working out and I am glad that I never got married but I'm not telling you to not get married. I'm just saying take your time and it will work out. appreciate the love he gives you but don't think that you have to get married anytime soon just cause you both love each other.
2007-02-20 15:05:27 · answer #4 · answered by billyguitarfx 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Unless he actually brings the topic up I wouldn't be thinking about it
2007-02-20 15:00:28 · answer #5 · answered by Jen_n_TX 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
HE WILL TELL YOU
2007-02-20 15:03:23 · answer #6 · answered by michael h 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋