I have this nephew who thinks he can get away with every thing. he is heavily into marijuana and steals from myself and my mom. recently me and another nephew were having some beers in the alley behind my house, towards the early morning, my nephew "J" did'nt want to drive home, so the only place I could offer him was van. later that morning we were on our way to Fullerton And with me taking his word I believed him that he locked my van. Any way My Ipod is gone and ive been having these violent thoughts lately. I've put up with so much from nephews and even worse I have to live with the worse one. I wish he could just move out but hes to caught up with drugs, he cant hold a job. My mom does;nt want him out because shes too kind a woman to do that and my dad has a disability that keeps him at everyones mercy do to the medication. I just want to hurt him so bad (my Nephew) I want him to disapear. Ive had to put up with this **** for almost 10 years now. I havethe ability, no will
2007-02-20 06:55:53 · 5 answers · asked by Juan D 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
Then why don't you move out and let your mom deal with him. If it's her house it's her choice.
2007-02-20 07:05:59 · answer #1 · answered by teeniey37 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It would be pointless to hurt him, since he is quite obviously hurting himself in ways that are less immediate and more powerful than you may see presently. And it would only harm you as well.
It seems to me that you may be living in a somewhat disorganized environment, buffeted by the base wants, whims and needs of those around you.
You need to regroup. Take the time to find a place alone where you can sit down and write out the things that are currently bothering you. Write down all of them that you can think of.
You will probably discover that there are many issues intermixed with many people. You don't necessarily have to sort all of them out -- just become aware of the main ones that are causing negativity in your life.
Hopefully, you will be able to balance things around you a little better and be less affected by the disharmony of others.
As for your nephew, it really is true that what goes around comes around, usually magnified. Be watchful and patient with the situation. He'll most likely get his come-upon's. Hopefully it will not be larger in comparison to his foolishness.
2007-02-20 15:14:38 · answer #2 · answered by Avatar 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stop drinking and hanging out with your nephews!
2007-02-20 15:59:52 · answer #3 · answered by Raven 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would say move out if you can. You shouldn't have to put up w/ it. I had to go through the same thing with my sister.
2007-02-20 16:08:20 · answer #4 · answered by SHELLBELL 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I agree with the first answerer. You should get away from there.
2007-02-20 15:10:45 · answer #5 · answered by kiwi 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋