I recently met a boy I think I like and I think he likes me too. The only problem is that my parents send me to a private Catholic school and they said I am not allowed to date any boys unless they know thier parents and they really don't like the boys in the public schools which is where this boy goes to school. He's really sweet and we talk on msn all the time and he isn't a troublemaker but I'm afraid my parents will find out I want to date him and send me away to school..they said they would if I ever disobeyed them. What should I do?
2007-02-20 06:54:40 · 8 answers · asked by Chastity L 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
ok, have you ever just thought about sitting them down and calmly explaining your situation. it may work, but it will definitely take time!
just tell them that you've got an interest in him, and that they shouldn't judge him based on his surroundings, let them meet the guy and then make an assumption. if he's all you say he is then there should be NO problem
2007-02-20 07:02:58 · answer #1 · answered by baby_toiger 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know how you feel. I am not allowed to date either. He does sound nice. I go to public school and not all the boys are nice, at least not to me. Some of the boys, and one girls have fun on the bus though. You should find your times and make the best of it. At least that is my plan most of the time. You can do a lot of stuff in a short amount of time- like a bus ride. People might see so you should think about that also. i like that tho.
2007-02-20 07:01:13 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Okay, first of all take a nice deep breath.There, that's better.It seems to me like your mind is racing my dear.Let's take this one step at a time. First, are you SURE this boy likes you back?If yes, then discuss with him your dilemma. If he really likes you, he'll adapt to your cicumstances and work it out with you.That being said, you should NOT I reapeat NOT rebel against your parents, trust me, been there done that.It gets you nowhere fast. However don't be afraid of their "threats" of sending you away. Parents many times resort to this kind psychology out of desperation, they want to keep you safe and sheltered so badly they say just about ANYTHING to scare you. Perhaps you should start by showing them you're a good decision maker. Once they see they can trust your judgement bring up that darling boy of yours in a conversation. In the meantime, act responsibly, don't do something stupid like sneak out the house to see him. Think cool. Trust me if this guy likes you as much as you say he does, he'll wait it out with you through thick and thin.
2007-02-20 07:09:22 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that you should hint around to your parents about the guy and see if they get a clue about you wanting to date him are just talk to your mom about the guy she'll probably understand were your coming form she was young once . I also think you should take it slow in not to fast . write back and let me know how it go's .
2007-02-20 07:03:41 · answer #4 · answered by babygirl 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to your parents about him. get him to come over a couple times so your parents can get to know him and you will get to know him better. and if he really likes you he will want to meet your parents. but just be honest with your parents.
2007-02-20 07:06:39 · answer #5 · answered by autumn donn 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
thats not right! just because he's in public school doesnt mean he's a trouble maker! well get his parents to know your parents and maybe they could change there mind!
2007-02-20 06:59:28 · answer #6 · answered by [[chicken_fingers]] 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
a) Don't disobey them.
b) Introduce them to him. Before you date him.
c) Introduce them to his parents.
2007-02-20 06:58:33 · answer #7 · answered by tony1athome 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think you should talk to your parents about it. you shouldn't do anything behind their backs, because sooner or later they will find out. you will also lose their trust.
2007-02-20 06:59:05 · answer #8 · answered by Hayla 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋