I really like this girl and we were seeing each other 4 a couple of weeks and last saterday i spent time with her we kissed and held hands etc we had a good laugh ....... she had her legs round me and everything, she was the one kissing me. But on sunday i found out that she has suddenly went out with this other guy and he is a quiet guy who doesnt say much and is just in the background but im the more wild sort of guy who is confadent and will express themselves. I then had a sort of fight with her on msn and im really sad she was mean to me but i still love her...... i'll see her on thursday at 5v5 football comp what do i say and what do i do ??????? please help me!
2007-02-20 06:50:29 · 12 answers · asked by Eagle 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Wow, I think you should talk to her. See where things are going with you guys. Maybe she's just exploring her options. maybe she doesnt know you want to be exclusive. whatever the case may be talk to her and find out her point of view. If what you hear from her is not what you are looking for then you can go out and find someone else. She's not the only one out there. But if you talk to her and you can clear this up, maybe something even more beautiful will come of it.
2007-02-20 06:54:53 · answer #1 · answered by MariChelita 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be honest with her... Honesty is always the best policy. If it has only been a couple of weeks I would refrain from using the word love. That is scary and may push her away. Do not totally bow down but you can romance her and still keep your pride. Tell her that you are not really comfortable with her hanging with you and on you and then someone else the next night. If that is what she really wants then let her go. It will be worth it in the end. You sound sweet so you should make out fine.
2007-02-20 06:57:27 · answer #2 · answered by Trinity F 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This happens to me sometimes to i just write down everything that i think is bothering me (even if its really little) and after your done look at everything it will make you feel better to get it off your chest and you realize how much dumb things (or people) can bother you. Usually when i look back on everything its the things that i didnt think were bothering me that are bothering me the most. And its something that is not worth getting upset about so i just take a few deep breaths in and turn on my ipod and sleep when you get up you will feel so much better. Hope i helped :)
2016-05-23 23:16:52 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If youre confident like you say you are you should have no problem going up to her and confronting her about it, ask her where the f.uck you stand because shes not making it clear at all. Personally i dont think shes worth it if shes all over you one minute then suddenly shes goin out wif some other guy, but if you still love her try to win her back. Obviously the passion counts for something for her if she had her legs around you. But she sounds like a bad one.
Toss a coin. Heads for forgetting her, tails for getting her back. If your heart makes your head feel you dont want one of them, then its the other one you have to go for. gd luck
2007-02-20 06:57:12 · answer #4 · answered by KaZ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
TRY 2 FIND OUT HER SIDE OF THE STORY AND WHILE SHE DID IT , ALSO TELL HER HOW U FEEL THAT WILL HELP GREATLY!!!!!!!!I IF SHE STILL DOES NOT CARE U R 2 GO 4 HER SO JUST MOVE ON ANYWAYS GOOD LUCK & I HOPE U GUYS RESOLVE EVERYTHING!
2007-02-20 06:56:23 · answer #5 · answered by hello 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Blow her off or get hurt during football. Just act like everything is cool and it's no big deal.
2007-02-20 06:53:36 · answer #6 · answered by H.B.K. 2 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dude!! Move on already. Sounds to me like a lil tramp. Get a real girl that wants to be exclusive to you.
2007-02-20 06:55:47 · answer #7 · answered by boxerslive 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ummmmm.............
thats a hard one
i thnk that shes probably a s l u t
and shes not worth it
if she did all the stuff that u said she did, then she was probably trying 2 pull a john tucker on u...(u kno...the movie john tucker must die..?)
i thnk u should find a new grl who appreciates u
...
im available!
<33333333333
2007-02-20 06:54:55 · answer #8 · answered by x0 swim chick 0x 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just ignore her completely since she's the 1 who chose 2 walk away..there's a saying from where i come says:women are like postal stamps,u spit on them ,they stick..:) she'll come back..trust me
2007-02-20 07:04:50 · answer #9 · answered by Nina Powers 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
look ask her about this guy is this truth? tell her that you still like her and your willing to give it another try. if you feel you cant trust her then end it.
2007-02-20 07:02:47 · answer #10 · answered by lulu diamondz are 4eva 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋