2 days ago I found out my boyfriend had another girl. He dooesn't know that i know because a friend of his and mine told me. I really like him but he lives somewhere else and we only talk over the phone.
2007-02-20 06:36:12 · 11 answers · asked by Carol 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
As i was once told if you think your man is cheating then your man is cheating. why are you carrying on his secret that is extra stress on you. Let him know you know and leave him before he leaves and you look stupid or get an disease. You life is to important for you to do this. Please put yourself first and look at it this way the relationship started over the phone then it make it easier for you end it on the phone to. You carrying on a relationship over the phone, come on face reality and you have to understand that a man has needs, so now is the time to satisfy yours. He is not worth it and if he really like you the same effort he putting in to this new girl he could of take that same effort and energy to make you and his relationship better and moving closer or even discussing the problem instead of cheating. He not man enough and he does it to you believe me what goes around comes around. Do not wait end it change your number that is a start.
2007-02-20 07:02:05 · answer #1 · answered by PiNeApPle 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What so you mean "What should I do???"
Don't except this behavior from no one. How did he make it to "boyfriend" status anyway??
The best thing to do for this guy is to show him you have more respect tor yourself than to be involved with people like him. There are too many nice guys that are waiting to give you the respect you deserve. You have to understand that you deserve, at the very lease, honesty and loyalty. AND...you deserve to be with someone that you can physically touch on a regular basis, too. Stop cheating yourself and treat you self to someone that will be respectful, because that is most important...RIGHT?
2007-02-20 14:50:41 · answer #2 · answered by Ms Kamm 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you only talk on the phone you really didn't have much of a relationship to begin with. Try to find someone in your neighborhood/town, that way you will have someone to hang out with, etc. Keep your friend as a friend, a confidante. Good luck and God Bless.
2007-02-20 14:41:24 · answer #3 · answered by tersey562 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm afraid maybe you guys relationship isn't working out as well as you planned. I'm sure he liked you too, but he had no choice but to move on. If he's with another girl, just break up with him and you can move on too. Maybe you'll find another guy even better than him: a guy you actually see at school, and a guy you get to talk to in person. I know it's really hard, but you need to move on and forget about this. Have fun. :)
2007-02-20 14:40:37 · answer #4 · answered by julia 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sorry! I think you've discovered one potential problem with long distance relationships. Tell him that he seems more distant and ask him point blank if he's seeing or is interested in someone else. That way you'll find out if he's honest and/or if your mutual friend is as well. But....this guy is probably not your boyfriend at this point.
2007-02-20 14:41:44 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
dump him, he's sooooooooooooooo not worth it. The key to a good long distance relationship is communication. You two dont seem to have that. You two also need to be on the same page. He may feel its appropriate to date others since you both live out of town.
2007-02-20 14:44:18 · answer #6 · answered by cuteami78 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I understand what it feels like to be in a long distance relationship and its extremely hard. However,t..if he has another girl..be true to yourself and break up with him. If he wasn't man enough to tell you that he wanted to see other girls, then he isn't worth it. Dump Him!!
2007-02-20 14:42:53 · answer #7 · answered by Marisa B 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Cheaters are like smokers, they never "quit" , they always have the urge, and they either just don't have one for a while or get better at hiding the habit.
2007-02-20 14:42:55 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
girl.... u need to break it off forreal!! he is playin u for a fool! and that's not koo at all. u can do betta then that and u deserve betta then that too. if he has anotha girl and y'all are in different places wat do u think is really going on? stuff that shouldnt be goin on. so personally i think u really needa drop him and look for anotha man. and maybe if he really wants u he'll drop her and be with u and only u. if not then he aint the right one for u.
2007-02-20 14:56:31 · answer #9 · answered by juicy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
move on... when he calls you don't take his phone call..is not worth reducing your self to his level..find someone that is going to do right by you..and if you ever come to a confrontation let him know that you are too good to be dealing with someone dishonest......
2007-02-20 14:45:11 · answer #10 · answered by mona w 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋