but she doesnt want to be in a relationship right now,she subconciously flirts with every guy at school.She says she does that with her best friends without knowing.We have been really good friends for about 4 months. She said if she ever hurt me it would ruin our friendship.Apperently her last bf hurt her pretty badly and she didnt want to risk anything but 2 months ago i told her that i liked her and she said that she kinda liked me but didnt want anything right now. 5 days ago when we talked about her flirting problem she asked if i liked her and i said yes. Her answer was that she was just confused right now. So i dont know what to do,she is really cool and i like her alot but i dont understand what the problem is.She says she likes me and then she says she doesn't want a relationship and then she says she is confused.Should i try to be friends with her even though i will always like her or just move on?I dont think i can just be friends with her.We talk about 2 to 3 hours a day.
2007-02-20 06:34:51 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
She's just not that into you as a boyfriend, no matter what she says.
Be a man and cut her off, or she will continue to use you as a BFF. Maybe then she may notice what life is like without you and change her mind, or maybe not.
2007-02-20 06:39:30 · answer #1 · answered by kimpetuous 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-11-24 20:29:39 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry, she definately doesn't want a boyfriend/girlfriend relationship with you. It is so obvious. The 'i'm confused, i don't want to ruin a good friendship' line is one that is used all the time by girls who just don't fancy a man.
I'm so sorry. Maybe when you're both a bit more mature this will change - in fact, there is a good chance it will. Don't push it now, just be there for her. You never know....
2007-02-20 06:42:35 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you could have your cake and eat it too, wouldn't you? So far, you have given her no reason to believe that she can't behave this way indefinitely. Calmly, explain the consequences of her and be prepared to back it up if she will not change. Once she realizes that you are serious, if she is serious, she will come after you. If she doesn't, then you are both still better off.
2007-02-20 06:41:52 · answer #4 · answered by David 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dude it sounds like she DOES like you but she's just scared and she does not want to mess things up with you. Don't give up too soon 4 months is nothing...i had to wait 4 years to go out with my boyfriend...we were friends first and he didn't know what he wanted either. Now we could not be happier. Just give her some time it takes gutz to admit to yourself that you may have fallen for someone that you didn't mean to from the start...I wish you the best of Luck and i hope things go your way soon...but be patient.
2007-02-20 06:42:49 · answer #5 · answered by 1.2..3...Boo 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I think friendship is the basis of a good relationship, so if you like this girl don't give up so easily. You have an unique opportunity to get to know her better, for her to become more comfortable around you, and to confide her feelings in you. Eventually, she'll be ready for another relationship and you'll be the first to know! good luck
2007-02-20 06:39:29 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Move On, find someone who wants you as much as you want them , anything else is just a waste of time and a heartache to be.
2007-02-20 06:39:50 · answer #7 · answered by EGOman 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Run for your life. For gods sake take my advise. SHE IS USING YOU! Drop her like a bad habit. Don't even talk to her ever again. I feel like this is a letter that I sent myself from the past to the future me. I have been there RUN.
2007-02-20 06:39:47 · answer #8 · answered by neoaltro1 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Stop talking to her, move on and start liking someone else
2007-02-20 06:37:27 · answer #9 · answered by TroubleRose 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well im kinda going throw that now if i was you get a gf and than she realize how much she likes you
2007-02-20 06:41:16 · answer #10 · answered by sparks nevada wild child 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋