I really love this guy he is my brother's good friend he is 17 and I am 14!! He has flirted with me so many times and I am always making stuff for him when he comes over. He calls me his ***** but i don't mind cause i love him so much. But I have a bf and i really like my bf but it is not the same! I really wish i knew how to tell this older boy i want to be more than friends. I have tried to forget about him so many times but I always fall for him everytime i see him! It sux cuz i don't even know why i like him so much! Please help me i don't know what to do??
2007-02-20 06:33:05 · 14 answers · asked by ?Huh? 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
the reason he calls me his ***** is in a joking way he says it because i always offer to do stuff for him and don't say i don't know what love is cause i am too young love has no age limit!
2007-02-20 06:37:31 · update #1
ok i think the guy likes me though cause one time we were riding together in a car with my bro and he was flirting wickid and he threw a rasin at me and it went down my shirt and into my bra and i was like nice and he asked if i wanted him to get it out and i was like no and before he was sitting next to me he kept staring at me and then he shared a drink with me and let me lay on him but when my bro looked he was like what the hell i think he doesn't want my brother to know he likes me and he has told me he loves me twice!
2007-02-20 06:43:02 · update #2
also i am goood in school so don't just come on here and tell me i am too young to focus on school or w/e if you have something to say about my question that might actually help then leave it but if not don't answer i don't care if you think i'm too young i just need advice not ur frigin annoying oppinions
2007-02-20 06:47:04 · update #3
so, are you saying you are a cheater? if you really want someone else, break it off with your guy before you cheat. you cant play 'chance' with people's hearts. you sound very immature. sorry.
2007-02-20 06:37:47 · answer #1 · answered by Aunt Mair á?¦ 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Since you have a boyfriend and love this guy that is your brothers friend, don't you think maybe you think about what is important here, your commitment to your boyfriend or trying to hook up with your brothers friend, you say you love your boyfriend but are in love with his other guy. If you don't want to be with your boyfriend anymore then tell him so he can move on with his life and tell the other guy that you like him and see what he says if he does not want date you then don't get upset, age difference does not matter in this case just as long as either parties don't go too young or too old. It might be a good idea to think about what you plan to say before you do so things don't get mixed up.
2007-02-20 06:41:15 · answer #2 · answered by gordonflames242003 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i'm in the samething like u. i not allowed to date but i have a caring thing with a 18 year old and i'm 14. there's one thing u have to do. ask ur self, which do u care for the most? if u cant answer that then ask, which one cares for me the most and would be always there for me? love is had to find. and most of the time it comes at the wrong time. i've been there before. have u talked to the 17 year old one? about how u feel? do u know if he feels the same? if in the end see which one u will be happy with. i wish u luck.
2007-02-20 06:42:07 · answer #3 · answered by blackstar_13 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sweety, you need to stop stressing about boys and concentrate on school. You are way to young for all this I'm-with-him-but-I-secretly-love-him drama. You're way to young to have a boyfriend to begin with. Leave that for bitter old ladies that have nothing better to do other than stress themselves out over men because that's all they will ever have in life. You hit those books and you'll see that when it really matters (like after you have a career) men will be stressing over getting ur attention and not the other way around.
2007-02-20 06:40:40 · answer #4 · answered by MariChelita 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds to me that this is the typical "crush". I had them too, when I was younger. Just enjoy it for what it is. I'm sure he likes you as his friends "cute little sister". Stay with your bf. This 17 yr. old fella is not going to date a 14 yr. old girl. Now, 5 yrs. downthe road the 3 yr. span in age won't mean anything, but it does at this time. Do Not tell him how you feel about him. Just enjoy him when he's around and have fun with his teasing.
2007-02-20 06:45:50 · answer #5 · answered by slippery slope 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
So he calls you a name yahoo blocks and you love him. Is it any wonder I believe women should never have gotten the vote and best we take it back as fast as possible.
If you really like him that much, drop your bf, walk up to him, grab him and kiss him. Tell him how you feel.
2007-02-20 06:38:05 · answer #6 · answered by pedohunter1488 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
in case you "enjoyed" one yet another and had intercourse and did no longer sense like it grew to become into suitable i think of you rushed it. i comprehend you will possibly be able to correctly be head over heels for this guy yet it rather is between the toughest issues approximately being in love or thinking your in love, administration over emotions/movements. i think of you ought to confer with him head to head once you get the prospect approximately those mixed emotions. in case you nonetheless like him its ought to be ok nevertheless, in case you opt for area, tell him you want some time to think of, of direction this may be a short lived smash up in case you establish to do this notwithstanding it would provide you time to confirm if its suitable or no longer for you and him to be jointly. in case you do no longer want to do this, spend time with him doing commerce enjoyable events, swimming at a lake, walking jointly, examine a e book, smash lose, loosen up jointly and don't communicate approximately your dating. it is distracting and spark off adverse recommendations. delight in the time you have with him. If this dating ends make it well worth it:) desire this helps
2016-12-18 07:19:39 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The best i can do is say to follow your heart and hopefully you find the one you want to be with. I beleive you should stick with your boyfriend though.
2007-02-20 06:37:13 · answer #8 · answered by lexiss91 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well all you got to do is tell your bf that u like someone else and when you are broken up tell the older guy! Nothing to gain nothing to lose!!!!!
2007-02-20 06:38:22 · answer #9 · answered by KatieKat13 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the age diff isnt a prob but that is not love he is just using u
2007-02-20 06:41:35 · answer #10 · answered by ~*Star*~ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋