hey :]
ive been datin this guy for 7 months now.
im really happy because im not good with long term relationships and i thought at the beginning he was my soul mate and it was fate[suppose to be]
i love him and i know him inside out now [even though his mother hates me for no apperent reason]
its only this month that i have started getting slightly bored of him hes really exciting but im just bored and not impressed like i use to be.
he has a gorgeous personality and a lovely way with him but i just dont know how i feel anymore :[
he kisses my best friends[im not jealous because thats how it has always been]
but i just feel strange now.
it feels like ive changed opinions :s
I feel like i will miss him if we break and stuff and how do i break it gently if i do decide to part with him.
hes met my family etc and people think its suppose to be :(
i dont know what to do :{
im scared :(
i may feel jealous of the girls that like him after too :( xxxxxxxxxx
2007-02-20 06:19:39 · 9 answers · asked by Charlee j 1 in Health ➔ Mental Health
7 months isn't a long term relationship. You aren't in love, you were infatuated with him and now that's burned out. Move on.
2007-02-20 06:22:52 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
Sounds like the euphoric reaction to new love has faded and you're gotten used to having him around. Try to spice up your relationship with surprises (sexual, if you've gotten to that point) or just little things to let keep the fire going...take surprise road trips, etc.
Most of all, ask yourself could you live without him, or rather if you're happier with or without him. Everyone feels that way, even married couples, what keeps them together is that the thought of not having the person a part of your life is something they can't even fathom.
If you decide that you could live without him or that he's not someone you see yourself growing old with, break it off fast and quick, no dillydallying. It's not fair to him if you keep him around simply because you don't want to be aloneor you're looking for someone better to come along, or there's a big dance coming up and you need a date. And be honest because in this case, it really isn't him!
2007-02-20 14:29:44 · answer #2 · answered by Survivors Ready? 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girl, you are trippin probably over nothing! I think you might just be in love with this guy and besides that, what if he's in love with you? You just need to talk to him and tell him you guys need some time apart so that you can clear your head and heart!!! You also should mention that it doesn't mean you're breaking up with him it just means you need time to see if you still want to continue the relationship with him!!!
2007-02-20 16:58:53 · answer #3 · answered by ♥Shaya♥ 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You don't do well in long term relationships.....why? Would like more details. Have you been hurt before? I don't think you are confussed, I think you are scared, you are playing this emotional tug of war in your head for what? You care about him he cares about you, what are you scared of. I think you might be looking for an excuse to exit stage left, because you are afraid to get any closer to him than you already have. You don't want to see him with anyone else which indicates you care about him, but are unsure about your own insecurities. Email me tell me more.
2007-02-20 14:38:19 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Is this your first boyfriend? I mean do you always feel this way over guys after knowing them for a period of time? If so, you really have to check out why this is so. Although you say you are not jealous, it might be that you are afraid of losing him after giving him your emotions. You say you are not jealous and then you say you may be jealous???????
2007-02-20 14:27:47 · answer #5 · answered by Anthony F 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Put up with him or don't, love will endure anything, it is honest and open. You have already mapped out an exit strategy, that ain't love, that is an immanent front, it's a put on. Get with him or get on with whatever you choose to do, alone.
2007-02-20 14:34:47 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
every couple goes thorugh this, when it was m 7th month i felt the same way, like bored and i told my bf about it ad he said he feels the same way, but niether of us acutally was willing to break up, but it went away that feeling, u just trying harder to think of new things to do. we all get bored at one point or another, so wait with the whole break up it seems like u still have feelings for him.
2007-02-20 14:28:22 · answer #7 · answered by Loco 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
The two of you really need to talk.
among other things, NO kissing yoru best friend
period
2007-02-20 14:22:42 · answer #8 · answered by lisa s 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Tell him to get kinky jeezh liven up the relation ship
2007-02-20 14:23:01 · answer #9 · answered by trugangsta1992 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋