Well I posted a question,
(http://uk.answers.yahoo.com/question/index;_ylt=AuqHhtReUpTEX0XUPpwdmpkrLxV.?qid=20070220083343AAEnFu4)
and I've had quite a few answers, but none are really what I needed to know. It's probably my fault, so I'll go into more detail.
There's a boy who fancies me, and I think I like him too, And I really miss him when we're not together, and all that stuff, but when he's near me, I feel really nervous, and I know thats normal, but I don't feel pleased to see him, just embarrased, and scared. Is this normal, or a gut instinct telling me that he's no good? And what should I do?
2007-02-20 06:18:49 · 10 answers · asked by Live4Music 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Emmersion therapy! Spend more time with him. Find out more about him and that should help you determine if you really like him or not.
I know this sounds impossible, but I have found the best way to get over being nervous is to jump right in. I certainly don't mean you should be pushy or have an attitude. Just... do it. Ask him about his day, follow up his answers with more questions. Make suggestions. Go for a walk. It's honestly not as hard as it sounds.
Good luck!
2007-02-20 06:26:23 · answer #1 · answered by doggiemom 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your intuition is giving you a 'warning'. Take heed. Is he older? You sound young. Ever had a boyfriend before? This is exactly how I felt when I was very young. If I was scared it was more nerves or anxiety because the feelings were so new to me. The feelings aren't necessarily telling you that he's no good, unless of course you KNOW that about him already. But it just may mean you need to take it slower. He may be too possessive already or too pushy. He may be moving TOO fast. It always helps to have some kind of activity you both can do like miniature golf or window shopping. Something that where it isn't expected that you make-out somewhere, know what I mean? Maybe you just shouldn't 'be alone' with him for awhile until you get used to him.
2007-02-20 06:33:20 · answer #2 · answered by La Cicada 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you imagine you fancy this boy. It is like the feelings we have for pop stars or film stars, but up close we do not feel comfortable or relaxed. At a distance it is OK, but when you get together just the two of you what have you in common???.
I think you will find someone else and the feeling will be different.
You will not have the uncomfortable feelings when you meet the right boy. Good luck!!
2007-02-20 06:30:25 · answer #3 · answered by Dolly Blue 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is normal. No, this is not your gut instinct telling you he's no good. You should talk to him like a friend and get to know him.
2007-02-20 06:25:13 · answer #4 · answered by TroubleRose 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i find this totally normal, coz u wanna always look good around that special someone, but you don't want to make a fool of yourself. this could be why you're acting this way! theres no reason to be embarrassed even though you can't help it! trust, when your alone together you might find it easier to relax.
2007-02-20 06:31:24 · answer #5 · answered by baby phat 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It hard to say either way. To me it sounds like you really like him.. You havnt said how good mates you are with him.. but if youre already good mates with him then take it further. If youre not that good mates with him then get to know him more and see if you like the boy/man you get to know. x
2007-02-20 06:28:12 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have to learn to relax a bit more when you are together. Otherwise your nervousness will rub off on him.
2007-02-20 06:28:37 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
The answers that you were giving were not what you needed or what you didn't want to hear?
2007-02-20 06:28:18 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
wait till your older than 12...
2007-02-20 06:22:48 · answer #9 · answered by Tacyella 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes it just means that you are truly in love
2007-02-20 06:28:25 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋