Guys, IF there is this girl that you think may like you would you rather her flirting with you like the whole body language thing (eye contact, smiling etc..) or Would you preffer her to straight up tell you she has feelings for you.... and if she does how would you like her to tell you? How would you want to be approched??
pls answers people....
2007-02-20 06:18:33 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I would prefer she tell me....but if I liked her, and she didn't tell me, I would flirt until I knew the answer
2007-02-20 06:21:38 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think most guys would say straight up, myself included, but I remember this one girl that for 2 years we flirted back and forth. When we finally hooked up and it was amazing. The passion that was created was unbelievable. We kinda had a relationship after that, but we both had a lot of stuff going on and it didn't work out. I still think about that girl all the time and for the most part I dont think about the others like I do her. I see her every now and then (6 months or so) and when we see each other you can still feel that chemistry. I have never had it before or since.
2007-02-20 06:27:35 · answer #2 · answered by Stuey 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, you have to do both. If you just flirt but give no real signs that you are intrested he will move on. If you don't flirt but walk right up to him and say"I like you" he may freak out at your boldness and not want you.
You have to flirt a little, and increase how much you do little by little. Then drop little hints about the two of you being together, how much you want that, how happy you would be, etc...
2007-02-20 06:23:39 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Flirt first. This gives the guy a chance to consider if he's interested. Dropping "the bomb" on a guy is usually a bad idea; guys tend to say and do stupid things when put on the spot emotionally.
I've done and said some stupid things when confronted out of the blue.
2007-02-20 06:23:43 · answer #4 · answered by Dendryte88 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Straight up. Alot of guys misconstrue niceness with flirting. If the girl comes right out and says it, the guy isn't left with using his intelligence....."or lack thereof" to figure it out. Once he knows.........it's always flattering to be flirted with. A simple "Hey, you wanna go out and eat, party, etc....will work" If you bring other people into it.........guys may think this is the "friend" talking. If it's just the two of you.........he knows your interested in him. If you just want to be friends..........leave the flirting out.......guys get to confused and don't know how to read women. Try to think of us as caveman......"shouldn't be hard".....and spell it out for us. If you leave it up to us to decipher......our logic and reasoning overloads and we don't pick up the signs.....or we have a meltdown and think every girl wants us. Be blunt, and to the point. Me must go, hungry, must eat.
2007-02-20 06:29:35 · answer #5 · answered by dylancv62 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Trust me just tell him straight up,i hate it when girls flirt,it throws me off completely and i cant tell if they like more or not so it takes me a while to ask her out. Tell him straight up
2007-02-20 06:29:42 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Every guy is different. Test him out, flirt a little. See how he responds. If he's not into you - he's not into you.
But I'd try both just to have your bases covered. No harm in rejection, it only hurts once! ;)
2007-02-20 06:21:59 · answer #7 · answered by that_guy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Straight up; everyone flirts whether they know it or not.
I'd rather her tell me directly than to misinterpret.
2007-02-20 06:23:03 · answer #8 · answered by Slimslimmer 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
flirting is better because it mean she has a free spirit. that means she,s happy and like to express her self.firty girls know how to have fun out side the bed room.
2007-02-20 06:24:33 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would rather her tell me that she likes me. When girls flirt, I cant tell if they're serious, or just messing around.
2007-02-20 06:21:55 · answer #10 · answered by egethepege 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋