I broke up with my ex.a while ago to date some jerk(i only found out afterwards)....help!!!read on its not wat

Question

its not what y'all think he my ex.spoke to me badly beacuse he knows im very jelous so he probaly got mad etc...Now i miss him so much but I dont think he wantsto dateme anymore I think I made a mistake!!! breaking up with him what should i do to get him back please help!!!

Answer 1

You can talk to him, but you shouldn't expect that he'll take you back.

Answer 2

He probably is mad at you, which is valid, since you broke up w/ him for someone else. Ask him to meet so that you two can talk (if he refuses, you can tell him over the phone, but I think in-person is much better). Tell him that you understand his anger since, in this situation, it's understandable that he feels you wronged him, but also say that you want a second chance. That you miss him so much and you know you made a horrible mistake which won't happen again.

That's really all you can do at this point. Put yourself out there and see if he's generous enough to take you back.

Answer 3

Depends on what the situation between you and your ex was such as the condition, so you made a mistake by breaking up with him but you should have things threw a little more just be sure it was what you wanted. If your ex is willing to talk and willing to give it a shot is something you will have to ask when you get a chance to talk to them again. If they decide that it is not worth fixing then you know it was not meant to be and that you have to move on.

Answer 4

You need to be honest with him. Tell him how much you miss him and care about him. And how you feel you made a really big mistake letting him go and is there anyway he could give you another chance. If he does then great, if not then you just have to move on.

Answer 5

depends on how long ago this happened.
If it is was recent
tell the ex that you spent every day thinking about him and that you miss him
and that you will spend the rest of your life proving to him that you made a mistake and that the breakup proved what you should have realized all along and that is that he was the one and only man for you!
GOOD LUCK
the quicker you talk to him the better.
Just tell him when you call that you want to talk and you want him to just listen.
Dont let him say anything and ask him to wait a day or two before he replies.
That way his anger wont tell you to kiss his azz for dumping him

Answer 6

take a look at this from his point of view. You dumped him to try out somebody else and now you have done this you want him back. don't work that way. You have a lot to learn obviously. Although many people make this mistake when they are in their youth, You learn from your mistakes and I hope this one teaches you something.

Answer 7

Either live with your mistake, or give it time for him to forgive a little bit.

Become friends before trying anything else, but DON'T force the issue.

Answer 8

Ok wait, you left him to date a jerk, but you want him back because he spoke badly to you? Ok, you need to give up dating for a while and see a therapist. It's good advice. Take it.

Answer 9

I guess next time you'll just have to think twice before you decide to betray somebody for a roll in the hay.

Answer 10

I would suggest that you can atleast try to get back together with your ex but don't count on him taking him back. Even though you are trying to patch things up, you can't forget how you stabbed him the back.

Answer 11

Why would you want someone like that back? Why not find someone that is 100% better then that and won't ever talk to you "badly" you can do better....I sope he doesn't take you back...as mean as that sounds....but you deserve better!