2007-02-20 06:14:10 · 7 answers · asked by rakesh g 1 in Health ➔ Mental Health
Write down the pros and cons of the decisions you are gonna make. Talk to people who may be effected by your decision. If the decision is gonna make a lot of impact on your situation or future you better be careful and take time to take the decision. If it's not gonna effect much..chill out and take a chance. Life is a bit of a gamble too, and there are not "The Best" solutions for situation.
2007-02-20 06:23:09 · answer #1 · answered by Lacsy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hello friend,
This is the case with many guys.
Possible reasons: Most guys are fickle minded.They really become very tensed during any awkward situation. They want to find out the solution really fast and want to get rid of the problem as soon as possible.While solving the problem many come under the psychic pressure of what others will think if I am not able to get the solution to this problem.....and many reasons do exist.
I am not criticizing boys..but it happens unknowingly.
Solution:- just to avoid the above said problems.
Instead of thinking about the solution , First try to go into the problem.It's effective.
Take a pen and paper and write down something like:
1- What really is the problem.
2- What other problems are linked to it.
3- What are your first plannings towards the problem.
WAIT HERE....
4- Then think again that whatever you have planned, what are its drawbacks and advantages.
What are the new problems you will face if you implement your idea.Then again try to sort out them.
GRADUALLY, you yourself will see that you have find out a full proof solution, which has no lacuna in it......simple!!!
And yes..Always seek the help of some Experienced persons.never get biased by your friends, coz they are as much experienced as you are.
Always try to hear from as many persons as possible.Ask them again if you don't like their ideas.Don't get satisfied with a single answer...Think that I may get something extra from another person.And may be that extra is your solution.
Take your own time and reach to correct solution .
******ENJOY LIFE******
======Tripada :B-Tech Biomedical Engineering(2nd Yr)======
2007-02-20 21:23:43 · answer #2 · answered by Trips 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Forgive all persons you have hated in the past or in the present fully from your heart. Also erase all the thought of any incident which you think as unfortunate has happened to you or your near and dear ones. If this is done, there would be no confusion in your mind and you can also right decisions always.
2007-02-21 07:27:52 · answer #3 · answered by spiritual healer 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Learn to analyze, dont get carried away by others advices try to understand the positive and negative angle of the problem and weigh it and decide you will never go wrong or get confused.
2007-02-20 14:59:51 · answer #4 · answered by rema e 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
FIRST ISOLATE YOURSELF STAND BEFORE A MIRROR TALK ALL YOU THINK ABOUT THE SITUATION FOR 3 MINUTES BY THE WATCH THEN TAKE A PAPER AND WRITE ALL THAT YOU HAVE SPOKEN AND IMMEDIATELY CLOSE YOUR EYES FOR 1 MINUTE THEN OPEN YOUR EYES THEN WRITE YOUR FINAL DECISION IT WILL BE SURELY A CLEAR ONE
2007-02-20 23:48:14 · answer #5 · answered by rajprakash r 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it means you´re not confident about yourself. Work on that and you´ll see how you´re gonna start making better decisions.
2007-02-20 14:24:54 · answer #6 · answered by whothatBE 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do Vramari Pranayam.Only yoga is the best remady for this.
2007-02-20 14:21:01 · answer #7 · answered by BABA SHAKTI SRICHAITANYA B 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋