I really like this guy at my youth group and i think he knows but my feelings are really strong. His friend who is my friend as well told me hes not looking for a girlfriend right now but i really want to be with him but i dont want to scare him off...what should i do?
2007-02-20 06:03:08 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Tell him..........
2007-02-20 06:06:56 · answer #1 · answered by troble # one? 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well if hes not looking for an girlfriend then you shoould prolly talk to him as friends..... u should be friends with him for a while first then if you and the guy both think that yall are both feeling the same thing then maybe you and the guy should talk about it then jus maybe yall will be together then if it ends dont think the worst of it because he might jus see ya'll as being friends and thats it..... you dont always have to go out with the guy that u like cause most of the time guys jus wanna be friends with benefits..... or being friends wit benefits might end up in a relationship.........
2007-02-20 06:11:08 · answer #2 · answered by hortenbury_17 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stop listening to his friend. Tell the guy how you feel and see for yourself. If he is not looking for a gf, then respect it and move on. Continue to be friends with the guy, though. You never know how things may develop in the future.
2007-02-20 06:07:59 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
try to get to know him in order to expose your good qualities as girlfriend, tha fact hat you kcare about him, hopefuly you are patient, etc the usual stuff
all boys say they are knot looking for a girlfriend, but when they find a realy interesting one, they forgettheir promises, it all baout being positive and market yourself in the best way posible to mkae hin realize
2007-02-20 06:08:32 · answer #4 · answered by manutd forever :) 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you know he isn't looking for a realtionship, I think you shouldn't tell him. What's the point of tellin if he isn't interested in a relationship. If you want to tell him just to get it off your chest, then go for.
2007-02-20 06:08:01 · answer #5 · answered by eternalreverence 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
go out as friends hang out with a group and go to the movies or go bowling... its a great way to get to kno someone better and get closer as friends and maybe more...
2007-02-20 06:07:01 · answer #6 · answered by Someonetolove 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you really like him that much, then wait for him. Flirt with him or something to convince his mind otherwise.
2007-02-20 06:09:32 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
juss wait a while and see what happenes
2007-02-20 06:08:10 · answer #8 · answered by mandy iz a cutie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wait and see
2007-02-20 06:06:38 · answer #9 · answered by wrfab 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont tell him...move on....
2007-02-20 06:10:54 · answer #10 · answered by deliah 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋