My sister is coming on to me and my bro.
Me and my older bro rent this place near london coz we've always been best mates.
Just to fill in the picture I'm late twenties, my bro is early thirties. Our sis is nineteen, and it's not like she's a full sib - dad remarried.
Its really near her uni, so coz she's a laugh, she's a nice attractive lass and we all get on well it was suggested that instead of gettin rubbish digs she move in here, which was of course great.
Since moving in shes been flirting a lot, talking about her sex life, wearin not a lot around the house, and this weekend she couldn't keep her hands off our six packs which as you can imagine was obviously arousing.
Me and my bro have talked about the situation and neither of us think she's attention seeking but we have slightly different views on how best to respond.
Advice?
2007-02-20 06:02:29 · 27 answers · asked by GymLad 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
A lot of answers seem to assume that we're angry. We aren't. Telling her to move out would be completely uncalled for.
The situation isn't like that. We're all adults!
She's had boyfriends before, it's not like she's only just become a woman, shes 19!
We enjoy having her here, she clearly enjoys being here and if she's asked to do anything, it won't be to leave.
Just not sure how best to manage the situation to our mutual satisfaction is all. Was asking for advice on how to achieve this smoothly as obviously feelings are beginning to run high
2007-02-20 08:09:41 · update #1
Try and picture your dad in her face. He'll be in her features somewhere. That should put you off.
2007-02-20 06:09:26 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋
In all honesty ... siblings or half siblings ... this arrangement of "Three's Company" is not something I would personally recommend.
It would be best for your sister to find some girl room mates. I think that your brother and you are older than the people she should be "hangin" with anyway.
You mentioned that she couldn't keep her hands off your six packs .... well ... I'm sorry to say that you and your brother should show enough maturity to not allow this to happen. As for getting aroused by her actions ... that should be your "red flag". Make arrangements to find her another place to live and see her at family gatherings.
I'm not sure how your brother's and your views differ ... but I think there really is definitely a problem here. She is obviously still quite immature and if you want to be good big bros ... I can not stress it enough ... make alternate living arrangements a.s.a.p! Good luck!
2007-02-20 06:13:52 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
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2016-12-17 14:41:38 · answer #3 · answered by bornhoft 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she is your sister than I don't see where either of you would have a decision to make. You may want to tell her to wear some clothes out of decency when walking around the place. I would hope that non of you would be considering a sexual relationship with a relative. If I am understanding the question correctly it is a sick one, if not I apologize...
2007-02-20 06:09:56 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Others have suggested to "go for it" and "bang your sister" but you really need to think about the consequences of that action. You have an obligation to your family. Even though she isn't your biological sister, she is still going to be at every family event and won't just be that girl you shagged once. For the sake of the family's integrity, I wouldn't do it. You should definatly talk to her and ask her to stop being inappropriate.
2007-02-20 06:09:15 · answer #5 · answered by mfupipoet 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Dude- there are seven billion people on this planet. You have absolutely ZERO reason to be intimately romantic with this person. THINK OF THE CONSEQUENCES. Imagine how people would react! Like- dude... your own sister, no matter how the relation is. Trust me man- I know it's not blood related, but you REALLY don't want this following you for the rest of your life. Think about it man. Go find another girl. TRUST me.
2007-02-20 06:09:07 · answer #6 · answered by chrisser665 3 · 2⤊ 1⤋
i know the situation, i have a younger step-sister myself..
and i believe that incestual sexual tension on her part is simply her wanting to no longer be seen as the younger sister.. it is her way of showing to you and your older brother that she is now becoming a true woman and wants you and your bro to recognize that.. even if that means possibly stirring up these emotions..
but maybe she does feel sexually attracted to you enough to take it to that next level.. if thats the case, i would seriously consider the consequences if you allowed that to happen.. what if you misjudged her? what if your parents found out? what if you woke up one day and realized that you just slept with your sister because you both got shitty the night before and now will forever feel awkward around one-another?
2007-02-20 06:11:11 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
EWWW
Tell her that her behavior is inappropriate and if it continues she will have to leave.
PERIOD
touching you and your brother and walking around naked is a sign that she might have some problems.
Dont rat her out to your dad at this point just talk to her as she might have watched her mother doing this kind of crap to steal your dad from YOUR mother.
who knows
but tell her
give her two weeks to change and then she goes to the rubbish digs
PERIOD
if either one of you has sex with her
she could have you charged at a later date with a serious life altering crime!
2007-02-20 06:08:23 · answer #8 · answered by lisa s 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Is she a half sister or only a sister by marriage? That really doesn't seem like it should make much of a difference but it does. Either way you need to let her know as casually as possible that you guys just think of her as a sister and nothing else. And if one of you is thinking about sleeping with her... they need punched. :)
2007-02-20 06:07:12 · answer #9 · answered by Phaylynn 5 · 3⤊ 1⤋
Set ground rules (like wearing clothes is a must) and introduce her to some of your buddies. Also make it crystal clear that you will not tolerate the suggestive behavior or she's outta there.
2007-02-20 06:09:45 · answer #10 · answered by Tiger by the Tail 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
U are both meathead douche bags for even considering this, that is, if this ? is even real, which it isnt. This ? is the product of a sick mind. Either way, get a life.
2007-02-20 06:07:25 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋